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Subject: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Grumpy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 10:38:56 01/15/24 Mon This may repeat, but I am curious about the question. If you could eliminate one or two aspects of your spanking, other than how long or hard, what would they be? Here’s an even ten possibilities to chose from, or name your own. 1- not over the knee like a little kid 2- if over the knee, not using a straight backed chair 3- not on the bare, that is, over panties 4- not in front of your bratty brother or sister 5- not get spanking threats in public or in front of others 6- not spanked down the hall on the way to the spanking 7- no second spankings at bedtime, or put back over the knee for something you said after a spanking 8- not spanked when dressed up 9- not spanked at the same time while a cousin or friend also got it 10- not having to wait til your father got home to be spanked [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:58:15 01/15/24 Mon What did I hate? A recent paddling in our kitchen for being a brat to my mom. I deserved it but OMG it was embarrassing. My uncle was visiting and he heard EVERYTHING. Then later at dinner he had some nice comments about what he heard. I wanted to crawl into a hole and DIE!!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:16:57 01/15/24 Mon If you don’t mind sharing, what did your uncle have to say? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Paul [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:37:43 01/15/24 Mon Man, as a kid "all of the above" would be my answer but if I was forced to choose two - Not on the bare butt would be my number 1 Not get spanking threats in public or in front of others would be number 2 although it faces competition with "not over the knee like a little kid" and "if over the knee not on a straight back chair" which was something I could really loath back then. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Brazilian Girl [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:26:04 01/15/24 Mon To undress completely nude before spanking. To feel my stepfather's erected penis on my hip when he spanks me over his lap. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:19:42 01/15/24 Mon I think spanking was a very shameful punishment to me at any age I was. The embarrassment was incredible. I always kept myself covered. But then for punishment, I was showing my naked butt. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Allison to Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:49:10 01/16/24 Tue Hello Grumpy, So I was being a real brat. I admit I deserved what I got but OMG. So we are in the kitchen and dad instructs me to turn aroung place my hands on the counter and stick by bottom out. Just as he is ready to start I guess my uncle ducked his head into the kitchen. I heard mom tell him we have a family matter to attend to. So he is in the den. Meanwhile dad starts with the paddle. THWAP. It sounded like a fire cracker. Not to mention my reaction. After the next of 10 I am in complete tears bawling begging and pleading for dad to stop. promising my attitude will be better. Nope, I got all ten. Then I'm told to go up to my room until I'm called to dinner. I ren up to my room bawling my head off. About 40 minutes later I'm called down to dinner. Mom has placed a cushion on my chair. More embarrassment. So as we are starting to eat my uncle looks at me and says well Allison it sounded like your dad really laid that paddle to your behind. I hope you learned from that. I was fighting to hold back tears. I was already ashemed and embarrassed that he saw me in position about to get spanked then heard it all. Now he has to bring it up again reminding me of the scalding I just suffered. Mom and dad just kept eating. I just said yes sir without looking at him. I ate as quick as I could. I wasn't hungry anyway and asked to be excused back up to my room. He was there for two more daya and it was so awkward and embarrassing having to face him after what he saw, heard and said. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Brazilian Girl Author: Julie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:00:23 05/04/24 Sat "To feel my stepfather's erected penis on my hip when he spanks me over his lap." I had an uncle Who was actually close family friend of My mom who Would take care of me sometimes if my mom had to go out. A few times he spanked me when he was wearing just a bathrobe and tighty Whitey's. He Would stand there watching me undress for my spankings And with his robe open I could see him get erect And he often played with himself. When he put me over his Lap I could feel he's a hard penis. He never touched me Touched me Inappropriately but Still it was creepy. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Dee [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:59:19 05/05/24 Sun My panties being lowered with sibs there to watch. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:37:58 05/05/24 Sun Dee: Will agree being de-clothed with siblings or others is right up there. I used to hate how mom would talk on the phone to seemingly everyone and tell them how she'd just spanked me. Then if I saw one of those people shortly thereafter, the smug smiles, the stupid questions like how is that bottom of yours, it was as if everyone was having a good laugh at my expense or trying to embarrass me further with the smiles and dumb questions. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Bad Boy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:31:07 05/05/24 Sun I hated when mom told others about my spankings, but the embarrassment was erotic. Did you get turned on when people laughed at your disgrace? If your mom had talked to me about how she had just spanked your bottom, I would have been very excited and also embarrassed for you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Vicky to Bad Boy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:16:24 05/05/24 Sun Bad Boy: Well if I heard other people talking about some spanking that someone else got then yes that could get me turned on. But when other people are smiling and talking about me getting spanked, no that just made me embarrassed and/or angry. That is how it is with spanking great fun if it is someone else but when it is you UGH! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Bad Boy to Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:47:00 05/05/24 Sun Agreed. I did not want ANYONE to know I got a spanking. It was just way too embarrassing! I wanted to know when others got spanked. When you knew, did you tease the one who got spanked and ask them questions about it? Did their embarrassment turn you on? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Vicky to Bad Boy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:08:30 05/05/24 Sun I didn't usually tease, getting caught teasing meant a spanking. Spankees are generally embarrassed and seeing that was enough for me I didn't ask questions for the most part. Sometimes after some time has passed they will talk about it or if you get a conversation going with them later they may refer to it usually in a more casual way. If they brought it up, then I may ask questions sometimes it is more like a commiseration session, but my experience was that some time had to pass before it became something to talk about. Did their embarrassment turn me on? Yes, sometimes for sure. I think most people get a charge out of it, they probably shouldn't but that is just how it is. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Bad Boy to Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:32:06 05/06/24 Mon When someone got a spanking, I felt sorry for them and embarrassed for them. I wanted to talk to them about it, but I didn't want anyone to know I had this huge interest. I thought I was the only one in the world who had these feelings about spanking. A few times, I knew someone who did bring up the subject of what happened to them, and I was turned on. I listened intently and tried to be supportive. When I got a spanking, I was way too embarrassed to talk about it but, at the same time, I felt an urge to do just that. A commiseration session would have been a powerful experience stirring up a tornado of thoughts and feelings inside. Being the center of sympathy and pity would increase the embarrassment. The sensitivity and compassion shown would be admired and even therapeutic. I don't know why spanking punishment of others excites anyone, but I no longer feel guilty about it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Bess [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:59:11 05/07/24 Tue Vicky, Yes, having my panties pulled down in front of my younger stepsister (and others) was the most embarrassing part of my spankings. But my desperate bawling/kicking and then spanking dance was humiliating. I didn't get to see my stepsis spanked often, but when I did it was glorious! Unless I was next. Who are your siblings? Like your mom, my stepmom had no problem openly discussing how she spanked me, insult to injury. But worse was she allowed my stepsister to describe seeing me get spanked - to cousins/relatives. "Bessie was bawling! Her butt got SOOO red!" etc. GRRR! PS who do you spank? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Rebecca [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:14:10 05/06/24 Mon As I got older, around ELEVEN or TWELVE, I began to think of myself as quite grownup. Nothing popped that bubble like a spanking. And it really did incentive me to avoid them! Mom played THIS card by saying 'spanking is a childish punishment, you will b too old for spanking when you quit acting like a child' I must admit I played The same card with my kids. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:57:59 05/06/24 Mon I take it when you say she played that card you mean she'd threaten a spanking knowing that 99% of the time the threat would get the desired effect as everyone wanted to avoid one as it is childish, humiliating, painful and tough on the ego for sure. This results in a lot fewer spankings as we age but every once in a while someone gets it and we all get reminded that no none is above it, it is still an option and a possibility for all. So yes it is very effective as a threat, particularly when it is acted on should the threat not be heeded. Then seeing the spanking itself is a detterent and reminder to all. Ever notice that one spanking witnessed by all humbles up every child. Everyone gets a little more respectful, polite and cautious around authority. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Dee to Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:43:45 05/11/24 Sat Your take on spanking and its effect and deterrent value on those who witness it is so very true. Seeing the spanking itself serves a reminder to all. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Aside from the sting, what did you hate most about your spankings? Author: Bad Boy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:34:45 05/07/24 Tue My parents never said the punishment was childish, but everything they said and did was a clear message that I was still a child. They could see when I was trying to be like an independent adult, and their antidote for that was the spanking a child should get for behaving like an irresponsible child. When someone got spanked, everyone in the house knew it. The intention was to make punishment a shaming experience and to show me my proper place. It did happen much less as I got older until it became very rare, but uncertainty made spanking influential even when I was probably too old for one. It's not a consequence you want to misjudge. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]