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Subject: Re: Question Author: Wondering-supportive [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 21:00:55 01/24/24 Wed In reply to: Stepmom 's message, "Re: Question" on 16:17:14 01/24/24 Wed You and others have come up with good theories and you have been provided with ideas and suggestions to deal with your stepdaughter's need. I say need because she is clearly telling you how she wants to be punished and trusts you enough to share it with you and have you administer a spanking which she already realizes is embarrassing Otherwise why not share it with her dad whom she did not wish to know about her desire. So there is already an intimate bond with you that she does not share with her father because she does not want him to know. Rather than over-think it all, why not simply accede to her request. Giving a spanking is not complex. It can involve nothing more than smacking a clothed bottom in whatever position you feel most comfortable with given your reluctance at this stage. The otk position may be too much so simply have her bend over and smack her clothed bottom. Have her tell you next time she in naughty and that you now expect her to do so. That will take the guess work out of figuring out when she is naughty enough to spank and put the onus on her rather than you when spanking. Perhaps a half dozen hand spanks may well address her need and the problem is then solved without pondering in anguishment about the right thing to do. If more is required she will no doubt somehow communicate that to you and that will then perhaps help you better understand where she is coming from. Bottom line, is start easy and conservatively and satisfy her without causing yourself undue reflection and worry. If the spanking becomes more than an incidental thing she will have to open up more to you and you can tell her as much if the expectation is that you are not doing enough with your conservative approach. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Question Author: Patrick [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:42:47 01/24/24 Wed Yes you know and you understand well, that she needs it. I only wanted to help you how to do it effectively and unforgettable. Your husband will not help you anymore... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]