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Subject: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Samantha [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 12:23:25 02/17/24 Sat Hi, I was never spanked as a child, sometimes the topic comes up, and it gets me thinking, was it really that bad? All my life I have been yelled at and grounded mostly if I had done something I shouldn’t. I wonder how different my childhood would be if I were being spanked instead. I assume that I was good daughter most of the time. My grades were fine, and I rarely caused any major incidents. What usually got me grounded was my aloof attitude towards mom, being rude, not cleaning my room, and very often violating my curfew. My mom never thought much of her approach to disciplining me. If I misbehaved she usually yelled a lot, it was easy to make her angry, and somewhere there she would say that I am grounded for a week or something like that. The closest I had been of ever being spanked was when I was caught trying cigarettes at school. Paddling was allowed, but my mom never gave a parental consent. My friend who got caught together with me wasn’t so lucky, sitting in front of principal office waiting for my mom, I heard her screaming on top of her lungs. My stomach was twisting inside out, because I truly believed that I was next. She left the office with her mom after seemed like forever, all red faced, full of tears. I heard her mom telling her just wait till we get home, and it got me scared even more. I noticed her tights being wrinkled, were they pulled down? Was she spanked on her skirt, panties, or even bare bottom? My heart was pounding in anticipation waiting for my mom, and I was really, really afraid. It all turned just fine for me though, a lot of yelling, suspension, and a month under house arrest. My friend never wanted to disclose what happened to her in the office and after she got home, and I didn’t pry any further. I can easily imagine things could be very different. How would you react to a situation like that? Could you really allow principal to paddle me, or spank me yourself? Would you be angry yell, lecture calmly instead? What would you do after we got home, could I somehow get away from being spanked? If it happened would it hurt a lot? Thank you for honest answers, it was years since that day, and I would love to satisfy my curiosity of what it would be like being raised by a spanking mom. Sincerely, Samantha [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Nick [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:32:58 02/17/24 Sat Our school used the strap which needed parents permission so the only time I got it was for picking on some classmate. I got called to the office, and I was handed the phone as they had dialed up my mom. She said u are going to be strapped and I'd better behave during it. She said, I will spank you later when u get home. . Mom was very calm the whole time as she left work to come get me. She told me we will go straight to the kitchen for your spanking when we get home so I knew what was happening. Spanking really do hurt, very unpleasant, and are not forgotten for a long time after [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:16:58 02/17/24 Sat I was never paddled in school, but a note home meant a certain spanking. My teachers knew this and a mere suggestion from them was more than sufficient for me to become a model of docility. My answer would be different, but my mother would undoubtedly put you over her knee, raise the back of your dress and spank you to tears. You would be crying for a long time. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:52:00 02/17/24 Sat Samantha, you state, "All my life I have been yelled at and grounded mostly if I had done something I shouldn’t. I wonder how different my childhood would be if I were being spanked instead." If your mother used spanking sparsely, you would perhaps mind her more. As a teen, I remember when my mother was angry, I acted as if I was standing bare butt near her and did not want to make her even more angry. But a good spanking is not so bad. It gives temporary pain making you wish that it stops, but the punishment seems to go on forever. Yet, a typical spanking lasts less than one minute with redness gone one hour after a spanking. Did you want such a spanking from your mother, Samantha? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:12:18 02/19/24 Mon Yet, the next time you do something wrong and your mother points it out to you, you might immediately show that you are sorry what you did. Then your mother will feel less stressed out parenting you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:00:57 02/18/24 Sun I am a lot like you. I was never spanked but I have always been curious. Never curious about school paddling though. Back in my day parents didn’t have to give permission. When I was in ninth grade the teachers could paddle but I never heard anyone scream and only one person cried. People told me it happened at their school though. There was a poster, I think her name was Karlee, who was fascinated with it and finally got her mom to spank her. As she put it “ I quickly lost interest but my mom became quite the aficionado”. She was still getting spanked in college. It is interesting how many people like us who are really curious about experiencing something, that if properly done, is absolutely miserable. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Nick [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:18:00 02/19/24 Mon Miserable is a perfect way to describe a spanking. It involves fear of what's coming, the pain of going thru it, the pain after, and the memory for months after. Very negative experience! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:43:38 02/19/24 Mon I guess that what makes spanking so kinky. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:44:01 02/19/24 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:06:02 02/20/24 Tue You are asking several questions here. Regarding how it feels and how much it hurts, it hurts! A lot! Obviously it depends on how it is done but I don't think I ever received a proper spanking where I didn't howl my head off. But there were degrees of the howling. How does it feel? Beyond the pain there is an intense sense of shame, humiliation, embarrassment, agony. While being spanked hard as an adult certainly can make you scream and cry like when you were a child or in your teens, I don't think you can ever recreate the other sensations similarly. How would I have felt if I was sitting in outside the principal office hearing my friend howling her head off thinking I would be next? I would be at least as terrified as you. Not unlikely I would have lost complete control over my bladder in fear (this is something that happened several times in my teens when getting really scared, also when seing my sister getting spanked knowing I would be next). If I was a parent I would never spank my children and even less agree that someone else did so I would probably have done the same as your parents. Paddling was not allowed where I went to school but I will never forget the time when I was 12 and mom was talking to my teacher as I hadn't behaved properly. I was really anxious and then finally my teacher suggested that my mom talk to me further at home. Mom responded immediately: "Don't worry, I will take her over my knees first think when we come home." The teacher smiled. You can try to guess how I felt that moment. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:50:27 02/20/24 Tue JenniAnn, I have read a lot of your posts and just seems like your parents didn't cut you any slack. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: JenniAnn to bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:23:58 02/20/24 Tue You are quite right about that. It didn't require much for either me or sis to be dragged over their knees. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Allison to JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:21:33 02/20/24 Tue Dear JenniAnn, I do know exactly how you felt when your mom talked to your teacher. For me it was just before our schools shut down for COVID. Our school also did not allow paddling but our parents were contacted and notified of any trouble. It was in English class and I was caught passing a note to another girl. Mom was contacted and the teacher suggested she and dad have a strong talk with me about paying better attention in class. MY grades are really good anyway and I ended up with an A in the class but mom assures the teacher that not only will they have a strong talk with Allison but her father will also be applying a healthy dose of our paddle to her bottom. To make it even worse that teacher was male. I know all this because mom let me know about the enture conversation that evening when we gathered in the den for my paddling to be carried out. I was already embarrassed and ashamed as I was told to undress and get ready but now I know my MALE English teacher knows I get paddled. The whole rest of the year I had to face him in class. I still feel the shame of that. I also know that he would stare at my big bottom knowing that Allison gets it at home. That shame never goes away. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: JenniAnn to Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:26:10 02/20/24 Tue Yes then you know how I felt. And I agree, the shame never goes away, and it is even more true for the humiliation. That is almost worse. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Allison to JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:13:45 02/20/24 Tue Hi JenniAnn, The humiliation was just awful. Every dad I saw him in class and just knowing what he now knes was pure agony. Sometimes he would look at me and smile. Not knowing what he was thinking was the worst because you imagine all this stuff. It was just dreadful. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:50:05 02/20/24 Tue I wonder if your teacher was what I call a third party bully. Passing a note in class really wasn't worth getting your parents involved. Bulling you and the other girls in class would get him in trouble but using your parents to make you uncomfortable is socially acceptable. He was just so concerned with your behavior. /sarc/ [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Allison to bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:57:10 02/20/24 Tue Hello bodack, All I know is that my bare bottom paid dearly for passing that note. I guess I should be somewhat thankful that mom didn't just go ahead and tell him that it would be on my BARE bottom. Still that humiliation and shame doesn't just fade. I still feel it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:38:05 02/20/24 Tue Suppose you have a teen who likes to be spanked and comes past curfew just to get into trouble. At first, you the Mom does not suspect anything about teen and punish her the way you always do by spanking her. Then the next day, she also comes past curfew. At this point, you realize that she had a spanking fetish. What would you do? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Allison to Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:14:22 02/20/24 Tue Hi Rainy, OMG I can't imagine any teen who WANTS to get spanked. I sure don't. MY dad's paddle is just awful and getting it on the bare is embarrassing and shameful not to even mention the intense burn. What teen in their right mind would try to make this happen on purpose??? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Rainy to Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:34:10 02/20/24 Tue The teen enjoys spanking as she has a spanking fetish. To my knowledge, the mother was using a hairbrush. Do you think using another implement would change the teen's attitude towards the spanking? Or the mother could change punishments? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:35:05 02/20/24 Tue I met a guy at a spanking party whose parents quit spanking him because he enjoyed too much. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Allison to Rainy and bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:41:07 02/21/24 Wed I don't know if changing the implement would change things or not. Speaking for me my dad's wooden paddle is just hell on earth and I don't enjoy it at all. I guess my parents don't have to worry about not spanking me anymore, I sure DO NOT enjoy it at all. It's totally embarrassing and that paddle burns like hell. BTW I don't always get it on the bare and even over jesna and panties it's still hell. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Allison to bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:02:13 02/21/24 Wed I'm pretty sure my parents don't intend for me to enjoy it and I don't think they enjoy having to do it. They don't need to increase the intensity of my spankings. They are intense enough. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:58:30 02/21/24 Wed After I posted I remembered a post from a women who enjoyed getting spanked and her parents just continued to increase the severity until she no longer did. I wasn't experienced enough in the spanking scene at the time to ask him how his parents did it. I think his weren't as sever as what you got. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: How it feels being spanked, and how much it hurts? Author: Luna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:56:06 02/25/24 Sun If and when a girl wants to be spanked she can simply tell her mother to spank her. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]