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Subject: Re: Spanking and parents'age (for Rebecca)

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Rebecca

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Date Posted: 10:28:36 06/17/24 Mon
In reply to: Alfred22 's message, "Re: Spanking and parents'age (for Rebecca)" on 14:43:07 06/16/24 Sun

This is not really a spanking question, but about priorities. These days, with cellphones, it is always possible to call or text if a child is going to be late. Unless this is abused, curfew violations should rarely be an issue. Speeding to get home is much more serious. The last spanking I gave mine was over unsafe driving issues (it is also the reason for my last spanking as a teenager).

There is never an excuse for abusive beatings, but a spanking at any age needs to be a memorable ouch. What is memorable for a seven year old is not the same as what is memorable for a seventeen year old. Did you get the impression the strapping Tessa gave her daughter was too much?

Physical discipline is an effective tool used by parents since forever. That, like anything, in the wrong hands it can be abused, is no reason to dispense with it.

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 07:28:05 06/18/24 Tue

Tessa was a great writer and no doubt a serious journalist. Her unabashed advocacy of spanking for her three put to rest one anti-spanking argument, namely that the erotic effects of a spanking somehow undermine its behavior-influencing benefits. Her remarks to her younger (13 at the time) guy who had explicitly asked her why he got hard right before a spanking were: It is perfectly natural and don't worry it will be long gone before I finish with you. Tessa thought that she had no trouble at all distinguishing earned by naughty behavior spankings from spankings chosen for their erotic aspects.

Parents who abstain from spanking lest they be accused of doing it for their own selfish personal pleasure are, according to Tessa, worrying unnecessarily. All it takes is a little commonsense to tell the difference and so she never let her time in the "industry" inhibit her using spanking for discipline.

Tessa recounts her change from using a hairbrush to using the short "handstrap" that she came across and purchased at a church yardsale. It had been designed for spanking and was inexpensive so she bought it. Unlike her hairbrush applications, it did not bruise.

As for the speeding spanking, I didn't mean to suggest it was excessive. I am sure it wasn't since it was with the handstrap. Tessa's daughter was just very scared of any hard spanking and she let her fear influence her driving choices.

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