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Subject: Re: Cooperate to the spanking


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stripey7
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Date Posted: 23:08:01 07/04/24 Thu
In reply to: karin_ven 's message, "Cooperate to the spanking" on 22:50:01 06/30/24 Sun

The last time my mother spanked me I was eight, and I could never make myself go over her knee. She would say, "Well, if you're not going to cooperate I guess I'll just have to do it myself," but she didn't change the punishment in any way.

I've got a song about cooperating by staying in position vs. not cooperating. Titled "Don't You Move," it's a takeoff on "You Movin'" by The Byrds.

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Ivy
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Date Posted: 10:18:14 07/05/24 Fri

I was spanked a little until I was eight, mostly by Dad as Mom did not believe in spanking (he is Irish Catholic and she Russian Jew, in Jewish culture spanking is frowned upon). I think I did not cooperate all that well, as my recollection is being picked up .

However, when I was thirteen spankings resumed, and this time as I explained before, mostly out of my mother's concern about behavior. Mom did the spanking. But, as mentioned, by this time I had been properly raised to do what my parents insisted on, and after maybe a brief protest about it, I got over her lap when told to.

Ivy

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stripey7
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Date Posted: 13:05:43 07/05/24 Fri

Jewish culture is far from monolithic. My mother was Jewish and she's the one who spanked me. I understand Father spanked my brother (older) at least once, but by the time my mother stopped (because "you're getting too big and I'm getting too old") it seems this was something he wasn't willing to do.

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Ivy
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Date Posted: 13:47:44 07/06/24 Sat

Most Jews today are Reform and they tend to emphasize social-justice, compassion and rights. Although there is no strict ban on spanking, they tend to take the approach of modern parenting. Although more likely to spank this attitude caries over into Conservative, and even some Orthodox. Spanking is illegal in Israel.

Ivy

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