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Subject: Re: the hairbrush Author: Karin_ven to Veronica [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 15:20:21 07/06/24 Sat In reply to: Veronica 's message, "Re: the hairbrush" on 22:22:15 07/03/24 Wed To end with a good hand spanking like Sharon does is a good way to end. Pausing between the spanks is good to realise that your learning a lesson wich you want to end as soon as possible. Like Sharon says knowing that there is more coming makes you promise everything to show how sorry you are. My daughter is 21 and just moved out of the house, my son is 14 and gets spanked regulary. Iam not as strict as I was raised but when it’s needed I give a spanking. Veronica, on your quiestian if your discipline stopped to early is very personal. Some girls (young lady’s) do very wel stil being kept on the strait and narrow. In my case it was discussed when I became 18. If I was living at home I would stil be under the same rules as before with the same consequents. I didn’t want to move out for college and realised very good that it also ment obey and follow the rules. I had no problem with it and could accept that this ment I would get spankings when needed. Ofcours I hatet them but also saw the advantages of living at home. After that decision the spankings became more severe. But for me It was the right decision. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: the hairbrush Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:30:02 07/06/24 Sat How did your spankings become more severe? Do you think you could have handled the pressure of the outside world without spanking? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: the hairbrush Author: Veronica to Karin_ven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:48:05 07/06/24 Sat Thank you very much Karin for explaining. My spankings always left a big impression and I promised everything. I did do better afterwards for a few weeks. Until i forgot how badly the hated brush stings. It sounds like you have lots of experience with giving and getting it. I feel sorry for your 21 year old daughter but I understand that she made her choice to stay at home and accept the rules. Did she still get spanked frequently in the last few years? Did it become more severe for her too, like it was for you? And you spanked her with the hairbrush too? How is a spanking of your son different to how your daughter got it? How frequently do you have to spank him? Was it longer or harder for her? Sorry for the many questions. I'm trying to understand how things might have changed for me if I had still been spanked in my late teens. I never talked to my mom about it. As you said, I did do very well being kept on the straight and narrow, until spankings stopped. I know of course each person and each situation is individually different. I can understand that you stayed at home and accepted the consequences. You knew what to expect. You were an adult and agreed to it in a way. Did you know spankings would become more severe for you after? How was it more severe? I hope you didn't get them a lot. Thanks for explaining. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: the hairbrush Author: Karin_ven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:00:11 07/06/24 Sat When your a young lady, older teen you should know how to behave so if a spanking is needed it’s a harder one then when your 12. Like I talked about before the hairbrush can reduce everybody to tears. So when older, harder and giving more swats increases the spanking. Was I up against the pressure from the outside world. Yes I was but living under your parents rules and discus things at home can give a differend point of view. Living at home as a young adult makes living together more difficult, it’s easy to annoy your parents. When younger they had the power to correct you, normaly it stops at a certain age. When the rules and consequents keep on going it helps to keep the air clear for everybody. Lots of parents say, my house, my rules no mater the age. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: the hairbrush Author: Dee [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:41:14 07/07/24 Sun The hairbrush keeps order here as it did in moms house. 17 and 15 still know the feeling of the brush as needed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]