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Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Gantard [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 06:16:02 09/29/24 Sun In reply to: Aunt Nat 's message, "Re: Not Sure About This..." on 04:16:34 09/29/24 Sun My premise in answering your questions is that you want your protégée to leave feeling that she has accomplished her psychological goal and therefore welcomes a continuation of the process. Hence: Position: couch with a pillow into which she can scream. Clothes: You remove pants and panty, the latter being removed when she is over your lap. Corner or not: Take a temporal break after the hand spanking is finished but keep her over your lap. Aftermath: Cuddle and mother her, with a further discussion of how she can improve. You did not answer an earlier question about the state of the groundwork for this process - does she expect a bare bottom spanking by hand and hairbrush? If that is not clear to her when she arrives, keeping the process as affectionate as possible (acknowledging your point that a punishment spanking is meant to hurt) is particularly important. Bottom line (pun not intended) - if the process is too severe and cold, neither of you will achieve your respective objectives. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Aunt Nat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:22:25 09/29/24 Sun Very good advice. Thank you. We discussed the bare bottom punishment. Well, I told her I will paddle her bare bottom and said "Do you understand? Do you agree?" so she knows whats on the table. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Gantard [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:35:11 09/29/24 Sun To supplement my response: Discussion of her deficiencies should occur when she remains dressed. Pants should come down only after she understands the basis for your decision to spank her. Number of swats: play it by ear while being cognizant of keeping the pain (including duration) at a level that will not cause her to decide a return session is intolerable. In the aftermath, stress “Rome was not built in a day” and she should not be discouraged at the need for regular sessions. Tell her that you are confident that her behavior will improve and that ultimately her behavior will reach a level of which you and she can be proud. At some point, probably not at the first session, suggest that she will only need a tune up from time to time once her behavior is at an acceptable level. Set up the next session after she has calmed down from the discipline. Ask her if a two week interval is best in her opinion or if weekly sessions are appropriate. Do have a fun activity (e.g., baking in your kitchen followed by a meal) from time to time. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]