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Subject: Re: Self spanking Author: Thea [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 06:47:17 09/29/24 Sun In reply to: Aunt Nat 's message, "Re: Self spanking" on 06:31:36 09/29/24 Sun Nat, you're new here. There's over a year of context you're missing. In my opinion, ending a relationship (platonic or otherwise) because someone consistently disrespects your stated boundaries, because there is a mismatch of emotional labor, because of a lack of respect, and because they expect you to keep on putting effort into them when they put none into you and seem to view you as nothing other than a way to get their rocks off is perfectly reasonable. You may have a different perspective. All due respect, but I don't know you well enough for your perspective of the situation to carry much weight with me. And claiming you would spank me for a situation where you're lacking understanding does NOTHING to encourage me to give your position much credence. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Self spanking Author: Aunt Nat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:04:58 09/29/24 Sun I may be new here, but I'm not new to life. I am a middle aged woman with two grown, successful children and a niece who I helped raise. I live in a small college town and for many years have mentored and mothered and cared for the students. I am very in tune with the young adult mind and what they are going through. Although I've never spanked any (yet) I have listened to their stories and given advice and even mediated their disputes. As I understand from reading you are not that much older than Emmie Sue and even as a young adult and professional woman you are still growing. I don't wish to start a dispute here, but I have a whole lot more experience than you do and feel it's very immature to simply discard my input. Even successful adults sometimes act like a child and can gain from the experience and wisdom of others. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]