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Subject: Re: Cooking Tonight Author: Alfred22 [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 07:45:41 10/08/24 Tue In reply to: Aunt Nat 's message, "Re: Cooking Tonight" on 09:37:30 10/06/24 Sun I suggest you make it totally clear that you will honor any safeword or hard limits agreement. You might want to read about Emmie Sue's experience with her Professor friend after she said that for a disciplinary spanking there are no safewords! It does totally change a relationship once the other person has administered a really firm spanking. I would suggest that you offer her the opportunity to stick around, be comforted, and even have supper together. The only warmth should not be just in her bottom. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Cooking Tonight Author: Aunt Nat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:15:17 10/08/24 Tue We have not discussed a safe word and I don't believe for discipline there should be one. I wont overdo it but she is certainly going to be a sorry girl. Hopefully the emails over the next two weeks will be much improved. The 12 or 14 I've received shows she is not taking this seriously. I do appreciate her honesty though. I have grown very fond of this girl and see a great deal of potential. There will be much comforting, understanding and bonding on my part, you don't have to worry about that. My intentions are to have a long discussion, with the evidence, inform her of her spanking, pull down her pants myself and have another long discussion while she stands in front of me in her underwear. She needs to know that this is serious business. My intention is to start out slow for a prolonged period of time then give her a good hand spanking. I will definitely accentuate it with the hairbrush, but I'm not sure how many or how hard. I know not everyone cries, but that is my goal. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Cooking Tonight Author: Concerning [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:22:00 10/08/24 Tue This sounds at least to me like an excellent approach. Will certainly be looking forward to your follow-up post here once it is done. So are you not willing mention your timezone? I understand; it's just that you said 3:30 but that could four hours from now or 7 depending on the area you are in. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Cooking Tonight Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:23:44 10/08/24 Tue Let's not kid ourselves, all punishment spankings between adults are really fun spankings. As I've mentioned before, no-one has a right to spank another, only a mutual choice. It's the degree of "fun-ness" that dictates how severe it is. If you are into it, you'll always find reasons to give a spanking or receive one. Indeed, I hope to meet Miss Norway again later next week, and have already warned her her bottom will be on the receiving end of a sound "punishment", but haven't thought up the reasons yet! One thing to consider Aunt Nat, what if the young lady genuinely resists your attempt to spank her? She has every right to. Will you go ahead anyway, or bow to her wishes? OTOH, if it goes ahead, I can't wait to read about it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Cooking Tonight Author: Aunt Nat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:15:11 10/08/24 Tue I understand what you're saying. I think I will know, I hope I will know when the young lady realizes that this is serious and meant to improve her behavior and she is truly sorry. I won't go past that point. And I think I can tell pretty well when someone is faking it to get out of the consequences. This was basically her idea and she has agreed to it. If she puts up a fight and resist I will go no further, but if that's the case, the deal is off. I'll take her home and she's on her own at that point. I doubt I will completely turn her away, but it will show me that she is not taking this seriously and thinks it a big joke. I have the feeling that she embellished some of her emails to ensure a spanking. I HOPE that's the case. Knowing that, I will also take that into consideration. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Cooking Tonight Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:41:48 10/08/24 Tue Well said, you sound very fair. It's good you won't go OTT. Good luck, I hope you both get what you want out of it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]