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Subject: Re: Pro spanker or spankee Author: Phil [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 05:46:30 11/05/24 Tue In reply to: JenniAnn to Phil 's message, "Re: Pro spanker or spankee" on 05:18:20 11/05/24 Tue Thank you for the answer. I'm very sorry to hear that. Hope I didn't open wounds and bring bad memories. I have a curious personality and ask a lot of questions. Like you, I'm anti-spanking as well. Sometimes I read similar stories of people where they go the opposite direction. How they have great relations with their parents, and no personal problems, despite their punishments or even because of it. Cannot say I can always believe them. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Pro spanker or spankee Author: JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:12:15 11/05/24 Tue No worries. I can't gain good stories if I don't share my own. And I don't mind talking about it, actually I think it helps in some ways to talk about it. I also have difficult to believe all of those claiming how much they benefit they had from being spanked bare bottom by parents. But those who had less severe or less humiliating spankings may experience it differnt of course. I can't tell how I would have felt had I been spanked less severely and felt less humiliation. And I know many were spanked harsher than I did. I only was spanked OTK with hand or hairbrush except from one time one I got it with a birch rod (worst ever!!). I have not experience the belt or paddle or cane from my parents. But they spanked very hard and for long so perhaps end pain was similar. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Pro spanker or spankee Author: Phil [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:06:15 11/06/24 Wed Noticed I replied to myself. It should've been here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Pro spanker or spankee Author: Phil [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:17:36 11/06/24 Wed Glad you didn't mind, thanks. I agree talking can help in ways. Personally I do not have good stories to share. This wasn't a practice in our family. Which is why it does get uncomfortable sometimes when reading staunch pro spanking advocates. And how this apparently is the solution to most problems. Because whatever problems we might've had, and there were, which is normal. I know for a fact that physical punishment wouldn't have been the answer to them. But I'm not here to argue with people. Just to read and learn. I searched a birch rod (it brought a bundle of twigs) and it and looks painful. What was it for and why was it used only once? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Pro spanker or spankee Author: JenniAnn to Phil [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:29:24 11/07/24 Thu The spanking with the birch rod was extremely painful. I have never screamed like that in my entire life. (I was almost 16 at the time). My mom had gotten it when she grew up for serious offences and she suggested that I needed a birching after having participated in bullying another girl at school. So she prepared the birch while dad whipped my bare bottom while I was over his knee. The skin broke at several places on my bottom and I had dark red strips all over. I think they realized it was too harsh so they never used it again. This occassion was one of very few where I could agree I really deserved a spanking but not like this! This was the only time I also did the so called spanking dance after a spanking. I thought I was going to loose my mind while it was ongoing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Pro spanker or spankee Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:43:30 12/01/24 Sun JenniAnn. What was about your spankings that made you resentful? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]