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Subject: A New Life Author: Lainey [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:30:48 01/02/25 Thu If this isn’t allowed here, please feel free to delete. Hi, my name is Lainey and I’m a 19F. I recently moved back home after a year and a half away at college. I wasn’t the best behaved girl during high school and even though my parents and I had a good relationship, I gave them a lot of headache’s. I hate to admit it but I know it’s true. Anyways, I lost my scholarship and have moved back home to work and started taking online classes. My behavior wasn’t much better after I moved back and last week, my parents sat me down for a long hard talk. They told me they felt like they had failed me in how they raised me and decided that if I was going to be back living with them, things were going to change. To make a long story short, they decided I “needed a taste of the old fashioned way of doing things.” (They’re words, not mine). It’s how they were raised. I was given a list of of rules, chores, and expectations. Part of the deal is that they will pay for my school and help me manage my money along the way. But the other part is that there will be consequences for breaking rules, failing to do chores, or repeatedly not meeting expectations. As you’ve probably already guessed, spanking is a part of that deal. I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry. We had a long hard talk where they apologized but said they were firm on this, I finally agreed after I realized how serious they are. Obviously I could move out or simply refuse but after some thought, I really don’t want too. Deep down, I know this is what I need and want to see it through. I don’t really have anyone else to share this with so I did some searching and found this place. I have been spanked already and it wasn’t fun at all. I experienced a weird range of emotions that I’m still processing. Anyways, thanks for having me if you choose too. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: A New Life Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:23:52 01/02/25 Thu I think this will be really good for you. Having rules, restrictions and consequences is really actually liberating. Can you tell about the spanking you already got? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: A New Life Author: Lainey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:28:35 01/02/25 Thu Thanks. Liberating is a good way to put it, though it’s sounds weird to say it. It’s hard to explain. The first spanking was that night from my mom. It was so awkward. She used a wooden spoon and made me pull my shorts and panties down. Then she made me lay across her lap and she spanked me with the spoon. I didn’t think it would be that bad but it hurt like crazy. I bawled my eyes out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: A New Life Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:33:00 01/02/25 Thu Do you have an interest in spanking otherwise? Did you ever fantasize about it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: A New Life Author: Lainey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:35:23 01/02/25 Thu No. Spanking was never a part of our family. I have a.l younger brother who isn’t spanked. It’s all new to me. It gives me a a lot of weird feelings. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: A New Life Author: Emily [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:27:07 01/19/25 Sun Hi, Lainey. I'm new here, so I hope this Q. is OK. You said oyu have a younger brother -- is he allowed to see your spankings? If so how much of oyu does he see and does he say anything after? I'm 16 and I can be spanked bare in front of my younger boy cousin and I HATE that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: A New Life Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:36:18 02/09/25 Sun Hi Emily. Why is he allowed to watch? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: A New Life Author: Cliff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:13:59 01/02/25 Thu I guess your only choice is to accept the consequences for not getting decent grades and following the rules or to move out. I have had girls come to me for consequences for poor behavior, to include not doing what is needed to pass college classes. They want to succeed and know they need to be held accoutable to do so. Other than spakings as a means of accountability being your parent's idea, I do not see much difference. I hope it woeks out for you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: A New Life Author: James to Lainey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:41:55 01/03/25 Fri Welcome - you're by no means the first gal in such a situation, so take heart you'll get out the other end... So, you sat you were a trouble gal in High School,so how did you qualify for a scholarship? Really smart and found the work easy? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: A New Life Author: Lainey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:12:44 01/16/25 Thu Yah, I was not a bad student. I made good grades. I just gave my parents trouble sometimes like missing curfew all the time, being mouthy, and other things. Things that most teenage girls probably do but get put in check for. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: A New Life Author: Martin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:34:07 01/19/25 Sun Have you talked with your parents about the whole situation since your first spanking? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: A New Life Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:11:02 01/19/25 Sun Interesting story and probably happens more often than not. I think a lot of parents say to themselves "If I had to do it all over again...", then a situation arises like this and they do choose to do things all over again. I commend you for accepting their conditions for you to return home. It seems like something that will help you in the short term. Granted, you are at a disadvantage and some may call it coercion. But you are at a teachable age and if that's what your parents feel it best for you, so be it. You are a team now with them and you have a choice to do your part. They are obviously trying to help. At the end of the day, I believe spanking is not a "child's punishment". It's a tool that can be used at any age, albeit consensual of course, if you are over 18. This is based on my experience mentoring a couple of young adults who had no issues with being spanked if warranted. Good luck to you and feel free to contact me if you have any questions or issues with your situation. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: A New Life Author: J1spen1 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:34:19 02/08/25 Sat Not easy to adjust too. Will likely be a month or so to adjust, the first few spankings will be awkward until everyone gets into a routeen.You will learn spankings are now part of your life, and your parents will learn what aspects really effect your behavior the most and and adjust their technique to benefit you the most, they may find certain implements work the best, or certain positions, or various states of dress or undress, they may also find other embarrassing aspects of giving you spankings have the most effect. One thing is for sure once this process is initiated it will not stop.Also along with getting spankings they may initiate other punishments. You are now under the control of caring concerned parents, you have had your chance at managing your own life now that is no longer an option for you. Hope to hear more about your new reality. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: A New Life Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:33:44 02/09/25 Sun What would happen if you told your parents you are too old for a spanking? Can you just refuse to accept it? Would they then not support you? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]