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Subject: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Jan's Uncle [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:38:33 03/30/25 Sun Hello Mindy, I see you have been talking with Jan. I have read her posts as well. It appears that Jan is quite comfortable posting here. She is quite detailed in just how her spankings are carried out. I readily admit, I have quite enjoyed reading some of her descriptions. I have learned things I didn't know before. I want to thank you for your support regarding my stopping to watch the strapping. I fely guilty as I said but at the same time it was quite a site. My brother in law was very focused on his task. He was really laying that strap across Jan's bare buttocks. Jan and I have since talked about it and as I mentioned, I did apologize to her several times. Jan is much more comfortable talking about it now so I'm sure if she sees this post she won't be upset at what I have posted. Jan even admitted herself that she gets it that I stopped to watch. As far as the door not being closed. That was a pure oversite on the part of mom and dad. I was never meant to see anything. Hear, yes and boy did that strap make some noise. So did Jan. It is only mom, dad, and Jan in the family so they probably forgot that I was even visiting. I already knew that Jan was spanked, but didn't know how. I did witness a few spankings when Jan was little, about 7 I think when she was getting a full on tanning in her bedroom. Maybe she can elaborate more on that if you like. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Jan R (Super Embarrassing) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:13:29 03/30/25 Sun OMG!!!!! Now he knows EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:47:10 03/31/25 Mon It is embarrassing, for sure. At the same time you may have been handed a great gift in having, in the family, an adult to talk to about your spankings and get his perspective on your life's journey. A sounding board. He sounds like a good guy. I suggest you keep him close and use this spanking you have inadvertently "shared" with him as an opening to give you another window on the process of growing up. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: To Uncle ... Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:12:46 03/31/25 Mon Hi Jan's Uncle, thanks for the message. Nice of you to write again. Do you have a name you'd be willing to share? I just happen to be a "Mindy" (far less of a mouthful than Madeline) but my Mork isn't actually Mork, lol In a message I just sent to Jan R I wrote, and then cut to paste here and ask you rather than her, "Is he your dad's, or your mother's brother? How does he compare in age with your parents? How much older than you is he? Married? Kids?" Be nice to know if you'd be willing to share. You say you feel guilty about stopping to watch. Jan R knows that and now you need to let that guilt go. You were offered a glass of clean cool water after being several days on a raft adrift in the sun without water. Believe me, Mork would love to have your guilt trip and while he'd feel sorry for our niece knowing he'd seen he'd not carry any guilt --- sorry yes. Guilt no. Another thing I'd be interested in, if you're willing to share, is how you feel about Jan R getting the strap the way she does? Do you generally feel it's a good thing for her? Or the wrong thing? Perhaps a simpler OTK bare spanking with dad's hand would be better? Or, no spanking at all? Thanks! Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: To Uncle ... Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Jan's Uncle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:40:08 03/31/25 Mon Dear Mindy, I see that Jan just posted. I gave her a quick text reminding her that she is at school and to make sure she doesn't violate any school policy. Jan has had issues with her phone. She may have mentioned that. I also told her she does not need to respond to me. I don't want to see her in trouble again. BTW, Jan's mother is my sister. Our parents were very liberal with us growing up. The most I ever remember is sis or I maybe getting a couple of pops over clothing if we were acting up. We both turned out fine but I think sis feels something missing from not being disciplined the old fashioned way if you know what I mean. Jan is a beautiful girl with a heart of gold. I am so proud of her and from what I see, she is being raised well. My BIL, Jan's dad was raised in a more traditional manner. He is a wonderful man and shortly after they started dating I told sis, don't screw this up. He is a keeper. I fully support Jan getting the strap. She was hand spanked up till about 11 maybe 12 before the strap was purchased. Jan isn't always spanked. I have been visiting many times when she will be lectured or scolded for something but that does it. Only serious things like phone violations at school, curfew issues, perhaps mouthing off to mom. Teen girls seem to go through a rebellious stage. So, do you have a niece. BTW I like the Mork and Mindy thing. I barely remember the TV show. Robin Williams in his early days I believe. If I may, how is your niece disciplined? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: To Uncle ... Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:09:06 03/31/25 Mon Thank you Jan's uncle and I hope someday you'll assign yourself a name. Keep signing on as Jan's Uncle but sign off with your first name. Be nice to have something to call you. I'm not sure I want to talk here about nieces and nephews. Suffice to say at appropriate ages they were corrected appropriately. Ouch! It sounds like you spend a fair bit of time at your sister's and BIL's house. Do you live near by? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: To Uncle ... Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Jan's Uncle to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:35:33 03/31/25 Mon Dear Mindy, Yes, I live very close to BIL and sis. I see. May I ask if they were corrected in a manner similar to Jan? Nathan [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To Uncle ... Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:14:33 04/01/25 Tue Hi Nathan, thanks for a name. Even though it may well not be the name friends actually call you, it is nice to have a name. What I can share with you is that in our family the strap has for several generations been used to correct and encourage a recipient to do better. Having been on both ends of it I can assure you it is effective. While there are different ways it has been given/taken the usual would be bent over a bed, couch arm or chair back or lying face down on a bed, couch, similar. I know one branch of the family has used a kitchen table in a manner similar to what you and Jan have told about. Are you married yourself? Kids? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To Uncle ... Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Jan's Uncle to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:41:54 04/01/25 Tue Dear Mindy, I guess since I started out as Jan's Uncle as my forum title I will stick with it. Well, it sounds like you and others in your family were disciplined almost exactly like Jan. I'm sure you can appreciate Jan's posts more than most having been there yourself. You know exactly what Jan is talking about when she refers to the strap as hell. No, I'm not married. So, no kids. I consider Jan my kid. I hope that doesn't sound strange. I must ask, the family that used the kitchen table, were there more than one sibling? If so were the spankings done in private. Did that family use the strap? Nathan [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To Uncle ... Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:03:50 04/01/25 Tue Yes, I think sticking with Jan's Uncle is best and sign Nathan. Not strange for an uncle to have a niece as their "kid." Lucky uncle, lucky niece. I think it a good thing, on balance, that you saw Jan get the strap. It's in the open between the two of you so something she's able to talk to you about if she ever wants to. Nice you're there for her. On the kitchen table, yes more than one sibling and I know the mother had had table time as well. Spankings were not necessarily in private. Being in the kitchen it was a public sort of place. Interesting about the strap. It was a Canadian School Strap. A piece of rubber belting. Generally they were a little over a foot long, theirs being a longer one, and one side had a leather face kept smooth and supple with oil. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To Uncle ... Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Jan's Uncle to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:32:31 04/01/25 Tue Dear Mindy, You have kind of planted the seed, I mean about sis getting it from David. Yes, that's my BIL's name. My sister is Ann. So now I will figure out a way to ask Ann if she has ever experienced the strap. David also keeps his strap well oiled. I have to admit, and I kind of hope Jan doesn't see this, but all this talk and revisiting what I saw is a bit arousing. I really hate to say that but it's true. I saw several licks applied across Jan's bare before I exited. David was quite skilled, although I have never used a strap or anything else myself. He looked like he knew what he was doing. I just have to ask, the siblings that were on the kitchen table, were they disciplined fully in the nude? I have the image of Jan etched in my mind. Nathan [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To Uncle ... Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:12:29 04/01/25 Tue Even when used as punishment spanking can be exciting for both men and women, so nothing to worry about there but I do think with Jan reading here that's not something you should get into. When it comes to David spanking Ann in another thread Jan wondered about asking her mom. I suggested she talk to you. Best you two co-ordinate if you're going to bring it up at all. It is, after all, David's and Ann's business. You mentioned David kept his strap well oiled. Do you happen to know what brand of oil he uses and how often he oils it? I expect David, having had the strap himself would be in a good position to use it well with his family. On nude for kitchen table strap that would have varied, Sometimes shirt pulled up, jeans underwear down around knees or ankles. Other times totally stripped off. Interestingly I'd say males were more likely just to have pants lowered while females more likely totally nude. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To Uncle ... Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Jan's Uncle to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:08:40 04/01/25 Tue Dear Mindy, I agree with you on keeping the "excitement" part out of the discussion. I was just being honest but I certainly see your point and agree. He uses some kind of leather conditioner oil I think it's called Neatsfoot oil. He oils the strap once a week as far as I know. Like I said, he sure looked like he knew what he was doing. Very focused. I find that very fascinating. So boys just pants and underwear down but girls, fully nude. Didn't the girls protest especially if boys were around to watch? Nathan [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To Uncle ... Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:50:23 04/02/25 Wed Hi Nathan, I suggested to Jan in another thread she talk to you about your sister, Ann, possibly being spanked by your BIL, David. In some ways if the question is going to be raised at all, I wonder if you talking to your sister might be the safest way to go. You could say having seen the strap applied you now wonder if you'd missed out on something growing up that might have made things better for you, for family life. Did she feel that way at all? You could gauge from her response how far you might reasonably go. I googled neatsfoot oil and it does sound like that would be it. Do you know why he oils the strap? Does he think it will crack and need replacing if he doesn't or is there something about oiling the strap that makes it a better corrective instrument. The kitchen table branch of the family isn't so close I know a lot about strapping practices although I've been there a couple of times --- stayed over with Mork when traveling --- when the strap was given. I expect both son and daughters would be unhappy about their spankings been seen, overheard, by anyone. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To Uncle ... Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Jan's Uncle to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:40:57 04/02/25 Wed Dear Mindy, Yes, the strap is oiled for both purposes you mentioned. One, to keep the strap well conditioned and it appears that a freshly oiled strap is far more effective as a disciplinary tool. I actually talked with sis last night. I also see that Jan did see what I wrote and is upset with me. I think I can clear that up. Yes, Ann feels like she missed out growing up and wishes we had been held accountable. Our parents were liberal, not much we could have done about that. I took an approach close to what you suggested. I mentioned Jan receiving the strap. Did I also mention that sis read me the riot act for stopping at the door? Well, out of nowhere when I mentioned Jan getting it, sis looked at me and said, she isn't the only one. There are only the three of them so I guess that narrows it down doesn't it. I followed up with how many times. Sis just said more than once and that was it. I did ask if Jan knew and she said no. The cat might be out of the bag now. I guess we will just have to brace for a responce. Nathan [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To Uncle ... Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:30:53 04/03/25 Thu Yes, it seems the cat is out of the bag and I think you have the perfect opportunity to find out more by asking her, at some point, how she feels about being strapped? You wonder about what it would have been like to have been spanked growing up and if it would have been a good thing. Crazy as it may be you've read about guys spanked by their wives and how relieved, calm, they feel to be forgiven and encouraged by the strap to do better so you were wondering what her thoughts were, how she felt about it? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To Uncle ... Re: Jan's Uncle to Mork and Mindy Author: Jan's Uncle to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:41:22 04/03/25 Thu Well, we'll see. Ann admitted getting spanked on more than one occasion. However at the same time she didn't feel that anxious to keep talking about it. I think she is a little embarrassed since she admitted it. The one thing I am very curious about is whether or not she is disciplined exactly as Jan is. I have an answer but by gut feeling is that she is. Getting her to open up about that may be much more difficult. Yes, I have read about husbands being disciplined. I must admit, I almost feel like I deserve to have the strap layed across my own bare buttocks for spying on Jan. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]