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Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 07:39:00 03/31/25 Mon In reply to: Jan R to Mindy 's message, "Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine?" on 13:00:37 03/29/25 Sat Hi Jan R, thanks for the reply. I'm always interested in two things. Just how other families, couples, spank and how they feel about it. I read the other day a great phrase, "headspace" and that's what I mean when I say how they feel about it. I hope your headspace is that as awful as it is to get the strap you find it helpful in becoming the person you want to be and you appreciate your mom and dad loving you enough to give it to you when you need it. I think spanking, the strap, establishes boundaries and growing up, and sometimes as a wife, I found comfort in knowing I could count on my parents to keep me in a safe place where I could grow and flourish. I also liked that we had a way of settling things and after it was over I was forgiven and it didn't drag on. I got on with my mother, who was the spanker, so much better than friends who were grounded got on with theirs. The room you get strapped in, is it on the main floor, perhaps in a bedroom wing, or upstairs? Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:22:40 03/31/25 Mon Hi Mindy, I'll respond to this post first. I like your phrase "headspace". Dad often tells me just before he starts that he loves me and he wants this next few minutes to reinforce what we just talked about, meaning in lecture. Then it's are you ready Jan? I do appreciate my parents and yes, I love them very much. I think I mentioned that it doesn't come to this unless I have really earned it. I haven't mentioned this but my parents, especially dad are very protective of me. You can imagine the trouble I would be in for staying out past curfew and not calling in. I also like that when I have paid my debt, it's over. Clean slate. The room I get it in is dad's home study or office. Upstairs across the hall from my room. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:50:34 03/31/25 Mon Hi Jan R I think you have a very mature and what will be for you productive approach to the discipline your parents, dad, give you. Have you any idea where your mother's headspace is with the strap? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:58:18 03/31/25 Mon I have a break now so yes I know exactly what her headspace is with the strap. She is 100 % supportive. She is always there when I am going to get it. Thank you for the compliment. My uncle warned me about phone violations but I'm on break now. My next class starts in a few minutes. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:04:05 03/31/25 Mon Glad you were on break. I'd hate for you to have a table top experience with the strap because you were talking to me. Do you think your mom wishes she'd had the strap growing up? You said the strap room was upstairs across the hall from your bedroom. Is it the same size room as your bedroom? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:40:57 03/31/25 Mon Hi Mindy, Table top, that is kinda funny. Yes, mom actually told me that she regrets not being held accountable. She turned out fine but still wishes she had consequences. I don't know about the strap exactly but I think she does wish she had been disciplined. My dad did get the strap. Yes, dad's office room is the same size. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:26:35 04/01/25 Tue Thanks for writing back, Jan R. I can't help but wonder if in the past when you're safe away at school your mom hasn't had a turn up on the table a time or two. Probably seems total bizarre to you but it sounds like she recognizes the need for it in the past and might well feel it would have benefits now if, as and when needed. As you know a good strapping can clear the air and deal with stress, anxiety, guilt, all sorts of negative emotions and lead to a sense of peace and quietness better than any drug. I'd be interested to know something about the table. Might you describe it, best you can. Is there an overhang such you're able to grip it, the end above your head? When you're getting the strap does your mom ever say anything before, during, or after? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:10:20 04/01/25 Tue Dear Mindy, I have no idea if mom has ever been spanked by dad or not. If so, I certainly haven't been made aware of it. The only emotion I can describe is deep regret for what ever I did to get me back on the table before hand. After it's over, relief even though my bottom is now flaming and I am bawling like a 6-year-old. I'm not sure what to say about the table. It has a green top. I don't know exactly how tall it is, I would say similar to a desk. It looks to be the same height as dad's desk also in his study. I'm not sure what an overhang is but when I get into position I am to grasp the edge of the table above my head with both hands. My mom is always present when I'm going to get it. There have been times when she actually goes to dad's desk and gets the strap out as I'm undressing. Maybe dad is clearing off the table. It only has a couple of things on it anyway. The only thing she says to me is Jan I sure hope you learn from this. I'm usually fully naked and getting on or on the table as she hands the strap over to dad. At that point, mom is usually looking at my bare behind as dad is getting ready to start. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:43:03 04/01/25 Tue Lovely to hear from you, Jan. I hope you're not using the phone at school and would get in trouble. Wondering about the length of the table. When you reach forward and grip the edge above you how far is it from the top of your head to the edge of the table? When in position do your legs go out over the other end? If so, from knees down? Ankles down? Then, how wide is the table? Fairly narrow? Where in the room is the table in relation to the door, the desk and likely a window? A lot of questions I know and hope you'll answer. You say you're not sure if your mom has been spanked by your dad. Is it reasonable to conclude you think it a possibility? Your dad sounds like the sort who would give it to her, if she agreed, and she needed it. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:17:06 04/01/25 Tue Hi Mindy, I only check out the forum between class or on break. No ma'am, never during or when I could get in trouble. So, the table is about the same length as dad's desk. It's pretty wide and I'm usually laying length wise in the middle. My head is right up where I'm grasping the edge. My feet do hang off the back at my ankles. So, just my feet off the back. The table is up near a wall with a window. Recall, it's upstairs so impossible to see in. The door to the room is on the opposite wall. Looking through the door you have a full vies of the table and me. If I'm on top. Dad's desk is positioned at 90 degrees to the table I'm on and a little way away. Dad moves the table out so he can go to both sides. I think I mentioned that. Wow, as far as mom. OMG I'm not sure how I would react knowing that she gets the same as I do. I really don't know and I'm not sure I want to. I mean, mom is an adult right? I guess there are husbands that spank their wives. I do think mom would have to agree with it. I can't honestly say it has not happened but I can't say yes either. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:53:53 04/01/25 Tue Hi Jan R. Good to know you're not taking phone risks. Have I got this right ... if you're standing at the door looking straight ahead there's a window and in front of the window a table, the spanking table, and to the left (or is it the right?) is your dad's desk? Other furniture, things, in the room? There are lots of husbands who spank their wives, and some wives who spank their husbands and in some relationships they spank each other when needed although best I can tell you even in those relationships wives tend to get spanked far more often than the husband does. Some might say it's because men are more dominant, thinking it's macho to spank. I believe it's more the opposite. That women think it through and better recognize how they do better if spanked some and more likely to set the stage, perhaps unconsciously, to be spanked. I'd say there's a 50/50 chance your mom has had a spanking from your dad of some sort. Possibly OTK but I'd say the strap more likely. YES she would have agreed and as horrible and distressing as the spanking might be she'd take it willingly. Likely when she was disrobing for the spanking and putting herself in position she was far more willing to take it than your dad was to give it. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:40:23 04/01/25 Tue Hi Mindy, Lunch time. Yes ma'am. You have it right. The spanking table is right in front of the window but there are no buildings behind our house and it's second story so it's private. Dad's desk is to the left. I might just have to work up the courage to ask mom if dad has ever spanked her. Mom is pretty responsible and she handles all our bills and stuff so I would really be surprised. OMG it is so hard for me to even imagine mom on the table like me when I'm being disciplined. Oh yeah, you asked about other furniture in the room. Yes, a couple of chairs, one which I put my clothing on as it comes off. There are a couple of small book shelves as well. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:04:08 04/01/25 Tue Hi Jan R, thanks for the help on table placement etc. With your dad's desk is the room big enough that he can sit behind it and look out, or is it pushed against the wall so when he sits he faces the wall. When he's giving the strap, where in the room is your mother? Sitting, standing? Wondering if there are other homes out behind you? Not that they'd be able to see in but might hear? On talking to your mom about her being spanked, I'd not rush into that. The sort of thing you could talk to Uncle Nathan about and see what he thinks about you asking her and if you did how to best do it. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:16:39 04/01/25 Tue OK, school out. Dad sits behind and can look out. Mom is usually standing by the table. There isn't anything out behind us. Just a big empty field, at least for now. Yes, I hear you on talking to mom. I will talk to Nathan. Thank you for the tip. Great idea. OMG I read what he wrote. I mean, how completely embarrassing that he ENJOYED seeing me getting my bottom scalded. I'm kind of upset. God that's embarrassing and now I'm gonna talk to him about mom. OK, I get he got turned on and I'm not naive. I know he will keep that image in his head for a very long time. It's just that, God, dad was just blistering my bare bottom. I was naked and bawling like a baby. Really Nathan? OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Lindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:29:19 04/01/25 Tue Jan, Thanks for sharing your embarrassing punishments, we know how you feel. It's awful you are naked for it and I was wondering what it feels like across the table, like your boobs are pressed down on it? So at least your nips aren't visible. Also, your dad straps you from both sides! OUCH! Does he give a certain number of strokes then again from the other side? Must be scary when he walks around so your other bare bun will feel the worst part of the strap? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]