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Subject: Re: Kicking Style


Author:
Ivy to Paual
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Date Posted: 14:04:04 04/10/25 Thu
In reply to: Marcey 's message, "Kicking Style" on 10:15:43 03/29/25 Sat

Hi Paula,

My father is Irish-Catholic, and Mom is Russian-Jewish. Spanking is not big among Jews. But when we were young mom differed to Dad and (my older sis and I) were spanked (over clothier and bare always with mom or dad's hand). When she resumed spanking it was with a hairbrush bare bottom, I think this was due to the influence of my aunt (Dad's sister).

I was far better behaved (and had better grades) than most kids my age, but not good enough for my family. Some of it was just the type of attitude adolescents have. I think what really got mom's dander up was she thought at 13 I was neglecting my bat mitvah studies. Then my aunt! She would constantly tell mom I needed a hairbrush spanking on my bare bottom like my cousins got. And mom took her advice to heart. The third spanking I got mom called my aunt over to see if she was doing it right She only told her to sit as far back on the edge of my bed as possible, with my shoulders and knees resting solidly on the bed, and my bottom on her lap.Otherwise she approved of mom's spanking style 110%, congratulating her for her conversion to "good old fashioned American womanhood!"They both agreed that often with kids a hairbrush speaks with louder authority than 'moral persuasion" alone'

It was indeed a dramatic change, and one which lasted almost four years. But as I look back now I think it did me good, and if I have kids they will get that same assist to moral persuasion.

Shalom

Ivy

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Vera
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Date Posted: 21:20:27 04/10/25 Thu


Ivy, How nasty of your aunt to goad your mom into giving you bare bottom hairbrush spankings but it was your mom's choice and apparently such discipline worked for you.
Scary hearing your aunt openly advocate bare brushings and you knew that's what your cousins got? Who are they? I bet they thought it was fair when your brushings began?

For me it was my stepmother. I only lived with dad/her on weekends and she never spanked me but I heard her spank her son/daughter and she encouraged mom to use her method of bare bottom wooden spoon spankings.

Up till then (I was 12) mom just hand smacked the seat of my panties but once my stepmom invited my mom into the bedroom to watch her spank her 13-yr-old daughter.
I could hear the voices - the lecture the poor girl pleading - then her begging crying and the sharp SMACKS of the wooden spoon until she was bawling. I never really cried from mom's hand smacks and I thought my stepsister sounded like a big baby.

When they came out the girl was still sobbing and stepmom said, "See, she's not too old for an old fashioned bare bottom spanking and neither is Vera."
A week later I realized it was impossible to NOT bawl like a baby cuz I got my first bare bottom spoon spanking!
And there did come a time when my stepmom watched mom spank me.
How was it that time your aunt came over just to see you get spanked and offer "advice?"

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Ivy to Vera
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Date Posted: 11:53:57 04/11/25 Fri

Hi Vera,

My aunt thought I could use that kind of discipline, in hindsight I can not say she was wrong. At the time I was just irritated, not thinking mom would ever do it. After the spankings started I did talk with my cousins about it. They were actually very adult about it, and were some of those kids who helped teach me to learn from my chastisements.

Mom spanked very matter-of-factually like she did housework and everything. So I was not shocked when she invited my aunt over. She watched quietly, only offering the two suggestions and congrats at the end.

What was it that convinced your mom to give you a proper spanking?

Shalom,

Ivy

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Stelter
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Date Posted: 12:38:28 04/11/25 Fri

Vera,
The wooden spoon is one of the most underestimated instruments of punishment, as you must have experienced for yourself. If the handle is about 30 cm or longer, it is possible to give the stirring (in this case beating) area a very high speed when it hits the buttocks. Even if the stirring area is usually not very heavy, this causes a brightly blazing, sharp pain on the skin and the first layers of muscle underneath. Considering that the frequency of wooden spoon blows is usually quite high (one and a half to two blows per second, I guess), one minute of blows with a wooden spoon results in an experience that would make even older people than a 12-year-old girl bawl. But who am I telling? You've had the experience yourself.
Thanks for sharing. All the best - Stelter (who also bawled under the wooden spoon, some fifty years ago)

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