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Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Grumpy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 16:07:00 04/10/25 Thu In reply to: Marcey 's message, "Kicking Style" on 10:15:43 03/29/25 Sat Is kicking an involuntary reaction, a strategy to make things more difficult for the spanker, or both? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:20:59 04/11/25 Fri I think kicking is clearly an involuntary reaction. I can take a hand spanking with just wiggling a bit. But once the hairbrush or other implement is brought out the pain level goes sky high. Kicking, squirming, bucking, etc. at that point become involuntary and my parents always felt that if you were kicking up a storm the message was getting through. And the pain level at that point was always so bad this was not something you would think about like "if I kick I will not be spanked as hard." Your brain goes into ballistic mode with everything focused on the fire in your butt and elsewhere. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Stelter [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:45:20 04/11/25 Fri Grumpy, Marcey, I think it's a bit of both. Of course, it's primarily an unconscious reaction to the pain. But there are children who start fidgeting, squirming and kicking before there has even been the first blow. This is probably not a conscious decision either, but at least unconsciously they are trying to escape from the lap, from the knee. No great drama, because it takes a lot of self-discipline to take a decent thrashing properly. But from the age of 12 or 13, I would expect the kids to have a better control over themselves, even if it hurts a lot. This is essential at the latest when the brats are no longer lying over your knee, but have to bend down on their own for the cane or the senior-paddle. As I said, I think it's a bit of both, although the proportions may vary from child to child. All the best - Stelter [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Ross M [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:05:22 04/13/25 Sun One factor is how the spanking is administered. If the technique is to spank, pause to let it sink in, then spank again, pause, and so on, it's possible to maintain control of yourself. An example is swats with the paddle at school. Even though it could burn pretty badly, most could take it without looking like a big baby. That was an advantage, as I don't think anyone wanted to look like that. Compare that to a spanking that is just one hard lick after another with no breaks between. The faster the rhythm of spanks, the more unbearable it becomes. At some point, kicking and every other physical reaction is involuntary, and there is no thought process going on that could be coherent enough to be called a strategy. Even if beforehand one promises themselves they are going to cling as hard as they absolutely can to maintaining their composure and their dignity, all is forgotten in the scorching heat of the moment. For lesser spankings, kicking might go along well with the crocodile tears. For those who would prefer to put on a show to hopefully save their bottom, making a big dramatic fuss could be a possibly effective plan with softer-hearted parents. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Stelter [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:09:09 04/13/25 Sun A nice consideration that parents and other disciplinarians can use to check whether the pupil's reactions match the type of spanking administered, or are perhaps just a big show after all. Thank you [ Post a Reply to This Message ]