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Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Brett [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 17:54:32 05/19/26 Tue In reply to: James to Lola66 's message, "Re: help me with my daughter" on 21:55:26 05/18/26 Mon Lola, I believe most people here, like me, are not child psychologists or have dealt successfully with a problem enough like yours to be entirely relevant. Your daughter has already reached an age where it must be difficult to change how she is being raised, and her father and you do not agree even on the basics. If you are the one to discipline her, then you will be the bad guy, and first spanking at her age is unlikely to make you closer. In some cases, it can lead to the child running away or acting out in some more dangerous way. Again, I'm not an expert, but the key I believe is finding out what is driving her to rebellion and acting out as she does. As her mother, you should have some idea of her as a person. Is she just going through a phase, or are the problems nothing new? Have you sought professional help? There are family counselors trained for this. There may be no quick and easy answer, but you might get headed in the right direction, and open up meaningful dialogue. If something feels wrong, always get at least a second professional opinion. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Lola66 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:24:30 05/20/26 Wed I understand your doubts, but here in Italy the waiting times are long and I'm afraid that the professional counselors are too slow, in Italy it takes months to book a visit and I'm already waiting too long, the girl is not completely out of control and just very undisciplined, what made me worried and pushed me to look for a solution was the accident with the scooter, I don't dare to imagine if she had hurt herself, as far as school is concerned she doesn't have bad grades but as I already explained to you two weeks ago she came home with an order to appear from the principal for rude behavior, we have to resolve it somehow, so I can't go on, then the other members of the forum say that immediate intervention is needed before it's too late, I'm so confused! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:07:44 05/20/26 Wed Sorry your country is ill-equipped to help you, and that you've waited too long to do something. It's a shame that this is your last refuge. As I said before, there are people on these forums who like spanking children, and they are here like ghouls to encourage you and enjoy anything you can tell them about the state of your child's bare bottom. Parenting can be a tough job and, ultimately, you'll probably do whatever your MiL wants, because she seems to be the dominant person involved in the situation. So a spanking is probably in the future for your daughter and, hopefully, she will be okay from it. If you tell the story on this forum, you'll have an enthusiastic audience. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Abbie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:16:51 05/20/26 Wed And you Brett are an arrogant IDIOT who frankly adds nothing to the this forum. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:08:08 05/20/26 Wed Thank you, Abbie. From you, I take that as encouragement to keep posting. :) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Abbie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:18:44 05/20/26 Wed Sure you do you hypocrite. You comment here and on other voy spanking forums always pretending to not be interested in the topics but to insult those who are. Yet your own interest is made obvious by the amount of time and effort you put forth on these forums. It's not likely anyone takes you the least bit serious other than you are one of the clowns who pretends to be superior and above it all but it doing so you give your dishonesty and hipocracy the light it needs for all to see. What a sucker. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:36:03 05/20/26 Wed I never pretend to not be interested. I'm a spanko, and I don't hide it. I'm against spanking children, especially by other spankos. You just don't like what I have to say, and that's not my problem. And if it makes you feel superior, or less guilty, or whatever motivates your BS about me, then that's fine too. Have a nice day, sweetheart. :) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Abbie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:41:40 05/20/26 Wed LOL you really have no idea how transparent your hypocrisy is. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Cliff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:01:24 05/20/26 Wed You are transparrent about getting off, reading stories about the spanking of children. Then you start calling out those who are more interested in spanking as consensual discipline for adults as being hypocrisy. What a prise you are. You should just be quite. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Abbie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:27:53 05/20/26 Wed Thank you -- I am a "prise" and I should be "quite". LOL High praise from a hypocrite. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Observer [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:59:35 05/23/26 Sat There are others, too, who think like Brett. Physical punishment has no place in child-rearing. Spanking turns good children into bad ones, but it doesn't turn bad ones into good ones. If adults do it of their own free will, it is okay. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]