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Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Lola66 [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 06:35:11 05/20/26 Wed In reply to: James to Lola66 's message, "Re: help me with my daughter" on 19:08:47 05/19/26 Tue That's why I'm confiding in you. I'm terrified that she'll end up in much more serious trouble, and that the situation will worsen for both her and us. Your words struck a chord with me: they reminded me of what my mother-in-law always tells me. She keeps saying we're too permissive with our daughter, and I think she's right. The girl isn't completely out of control, but you're right; we've allowed her too much for too long, perhaps because she's an only child. We need to start acting like real parents, even if that means being considered "too strict" by her. My mother tells me the same thing; she constantly repeats that we've been too permissive with Sara, and that's why she takes advantage of us. I think I'll take your valuable advice. Soon, when it's just me, my husband, and my mother-in-law, I'll try, with her help, to finally open my husband's eyes. Let's see what happens, because we can't go on like this. My husband needs to understand that we need to put a stop to this situation before it's too late. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:05:52 05/20/26 Wed Lola what is the reluctance to give her a good spanking? How old is she again? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Lola66 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:55:34 05/20/26 Wed It seems like an old-fashioned practice to me. In Italy they aren't used much as far as I know, or they are done but I don't have direct experience with them. Sara is almost 13 years old. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:30:53 05/20/26 Wed Lola it is a time honored practice that works! At 13, she is definitely not too old and can benefit from a good spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:39:28 05/20/26 Wed Lola have you given this more thought? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Lola66 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:03:45 05/20/26 Wed Tonight after dinner, when the little girl is in bed, my mother-in-law and I will all talk about it together. We will try to explain to my husband that things can't go on like this. I hope my husband doesn't take it badly, because he has a pretty strong character, except with our daughter. Wish me all the best, I'm quite anxious. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Mark [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:17:15 05/20/26 Wed Lola have trust in the girl needs correction and at her age and with you having tried many other punishments, a solid spanking is the answer! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: James to Lola66 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:47:22 05/20/26 Wed If you are going to explain it in a way he will understand it, deliver it without sentimentality. You are not talking to your therapist. It does not matter (in this conversation) why you think this needs to happen. Deliver a dry, informative, and direct conversation with the passion of a dentist. "Girl is acting like this. Here is what these various body movements mean. Here is precisely how a she is manipulating you. We need to be her parents not her friends." [ Post a Reply to This Message ]