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Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Lola66 [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:20:56 05/21/26 Thu In reply to: Lola66 's message, "help me with my daughter" on 14:56:08 05/18/26 Mon Hi everyone, Sara's acting like a little angel today. She spent two hours studying and then came over and sat next to me on the couch. She's so affectionate, and her attitude has changed dramatically. I'm having a question: is it possible that late last night she overheard the discussion we had with Grandma and Dad where my mother-in-law was talking about spanking her, and she sensed the risk, and is now acting like a good girl out of fear of being spanked? That doesn't mean she hasn't become so affectionate and calm. Who knows how long it will last, let's hope for the best. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Abbie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:46:46 05/21/26 Thu You might be right that she overheard. There's nothing else plausible that would explain the sudden change. Hoping the best for you and your family. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: AL [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:27:38 05/21/26 Thu Interesting on how the possibility of being spanked may have had a deterrent effect. Likewise, hoping for the best. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Lola66 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:09:21 05/21/26 Thu This evening, while I was observing Sara, I had a doubt. Since my daughter has never even remotely heard of spanking in our house, and therefore must be completely unfamiliar with the method and meaning, since my daughter has a best friend with whom they do everything together and often comes to our house and Sara goes to hers, I'm starting to suspect that her friend Ramona is being spanked by her mother, and that's why she calmed down immediately after our conversations. Perhaps the girls talked about it among themselves at school and the friend explained to her what it means to be spanked. It's all speculation, I can't confirm it. I've never spoken to Ramona's mother about this topic, even though we've known each other for years and our daughters live a few meters away. Are you saying I'm wrong? Because I find this sudden change a bit strange. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:35:45 05/21/26 Thu Good news! You can guess at the why, but have you considered talking to your daughter about it? Even if you were planning to spank her if she misbehaves in the future, shouldn't she at least be warned by you to her face that it could happen? She'll know for sure what you think, and you'll know her side as well. Open communication is the best start to whatever kind of parenting you intend to pursue. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: help me with my daughter Author: Lola66 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:19:30 05/22/26 Fri No, I didn't tell her this clearly. One of these days I might talk to her more clearly, though. I'll gladly accept your advice. You're right, I should have been clearer from the start, but perhaps a bit of mystery is keeping her on tenterhooks. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]