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>Kate, > >This was a brilliant report and carried out. It is >good to keep on top of such things so they don't carry >that lazy attitude into their adult life, they need to >learn now. Both of my boys have been spanked for bad >grades from lack of effort and not caring. > > >>Hi, I've been a lurker for the past few months in this >>forum but finally decided to make my first post. I am >>a mom to two girls, 11-year old Mia and 13-year old >>Lena. I have used spanking as a primary form of >>punishment since they were about 4. But lately, I have >>been struggling a lot regarding their studies and >>their slipping grades. I have never been very rigid >>about their grades and have never pressured them to be >>straight A students. My funda is that one should work >>hard and put efforts in studies and then whatever the >>results come out, it doesn't matter. They have always >>put in decent work towards their studies and received >>fairly good B+ or B grades. But for the past year or >>so, their grades have been constantly slipping. At >>first, it was down to C, then a few Ds and a few Fs >>too. At first I thought it could be ADHD or something >>else because of which they might be struggling with >>attention. So, we got that checked out. But everything >>was fine on that front. After observing them, what I >>concluded was that they were just not putting in any >>efforts in their studies. They are at that age where >>makeup, nails, dressing up, gossiping with friends is >>becoming much more enticing for them. After coming >>back from school, they were just wasting time chatting >>on their phones or doing makeup and stuff and didn't >>even schedule any proper timeslot for their studies. I >>warned them multiple times, took away their phones, >>but there was not much improvement. >> >>So, two months ago, I finally gave them an ultimatum >>that any grade below a C+ in any test or assignment >>will result in a long and hard bare-bottom spanking >>with the paddle for them. Since then, I have had to >>dish out quite a lot of paddlings. One day, I even >>became so irritated when both of them brought home a D >>on their quarterly quizzes. I didn't even took turns >>spanking them, just made them bend over side by side, >>bared their butts and gave them a stinging reminder >>with the paddle till they were crying loudly. Since >>this incident, there have been quite an improvement in >>their behaviour. There have been a few hiccups here >>and there but the spankings have straightened them >>out. I am hopeful that we are on the road to recovery >>of their grades and the looming threat of a sore >>bottom is making them take their studies seriously. >> >>Have you guys ever struggled regarding your children's >>studies or grades? Were the spankings helpful in your >>case in improving their behaviour?
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