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>Mark, > >My thinking on this is that my boys have to spend a >good amount of time over my lap being properly spanked >and come off crying uncontrollably while rubbing their >bottom for all they are worth, all modesty gone. Boys >need that reminder over our lap that they are not in >charge, and what better way to show them who is then >to have their bottom bare over our lap and then to be >spanked and I mean a ‘good’ long spanking. > >I'm not going through all the effort of baring them >getting them across my lap, in position for a 30 >second spanking, no way. It will be a long spanking >while I admire the view of my boys bare bottom from >start to finish watching it change colour from very >white to whatever shade of red (and beyound when >needed) that I need to see. > > >>A blast from the past. I stumbled across a post from >>Tessa on an old (now defunct) Voy forum. It was >>wonderful to see and be reminded of how delightful and >>unique her prose was. >> >>I have taken the liberty of re-publishing it here, >>and I hope you all like it and can respond with your >>own ideas of when enough is enough? >> >>---- >> >>Spanking parents have all sorts of different methods >>to determine when a naughty child has been >>sufficiently punished and I'm certainly not advocating >>one over another. Some will use the level of >>youngster's crying as a barometer. Others will go by >>the degree of redness of the bottom. Still others will >>simply spank for a predetermined time period or >>administer a licking based on number of swats. And I'm >>sure there are other methods I haven't even >considered. >> >>In my case it's largely based on duration dependent on >>the crime while also paying close attention to the >>state of the naked behind. (And it's also one of the >>reasons I discipline bare in the first place.) It's >>important to remember I don't spank for every little >>thing. (If I spanked every time I heard a curse word >>or somebody forgot to take out the trash out I'd >>either go insane or my arm would fall off, whichever >>came first.) However, if the misbehavior is sufficient >>to warrant a fanny warming there are two basic levels >>of punishment (with a third nuclear option which I >>will also discuss although it's exceedingly rare): >> >>Level 1: Roughly two minutes over my lap with my >>leather strap applied judiciously to the unclothed >>cheeks at a rate of approximately a swat/second >>interspersed with scolding that takes up close to half >>that time. Recent catalysts for this level of spanking >>have included unruly behavior in school, smoking, >>calling me a bitch, ignoring repeated directives to >>perform simple tasks, moderate lapses in curfew >>judgment, etc. There are obviously a thousand others >>as this is by far the most frequent kind of spanking >>in our house. >> >>Level 2: Five minutes of spanking with roughly the >>same proportion of scolding to butt warming as Level >>1. These are spankings that will be felt every time >>the child sits down for several days and are >>commensurate with only serious transgressions. >>Examples have included vandalism, anything serious >>enough to involve police, blatant abuse of >>alcohol/drugs, gross negligence of curfews (e.g. >>staying out half the night), school suspensions, etc. >>These are pretty rare and mine really have to earn >>them. >> >>The Nuclear Option: Ten minutes of spanking with >>scolding as explained above. I can count on one hand >>the amount of times my three collectively have >>received one of these. (I don't think my youngest ever >>has.) These are the proverbial "can't sit down for a >>week" spankings and what would warrant one are unique >>situations I've rarely encountered. Although it's >>never happened (knock on wood), anything involving >>alcohol/drugs and driving would certainly fall into >>that category. Basically these spankings are reserved >>for "I'll know it when I see it" kinds of behavior. >>Virtually never happen. >> >>Keeping all of that in mind I do monitor the redness >>of the bottom to avoid beating them "black and blue" >>as my mother was fond of threatening. What kind of >>barometer do you use to gauge when enough is enough? >> >>---- >> >>Those of us who were fortunate to interact with Tessa, >>know just what a terrific writer she was, and I hope >>those here unfamiliar with her posts can appreciate >>the talent. >> >>I had a good chuckle at the Level 3 title: The Nuclear >>Option!
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