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>Mark, > >Thank you for bringing back memories. I actually >remember that post, I think I might have replied to >it. You are right, Tessa was an amazing writer and had >just as great as a sense of humor. I do miss her. I >hope her and the family are doing well. > >I've never been as structured as Tessa in how I spank. >Like I don't go by a certain number of minutes, I just >continue to spank until I feel they have been punished >sufficiently for their level of misbehavior. What I >feel that always should be is a good, sound and very >thorough spanking. I spank until they reach they feel >like they can't take anymore and then I continue to >spank well beyond that. As my mom has always said, >"Once that point has been reached, then the real >spanking begins." And I agree, it is when the real >teaching starts. > >This is a conversation that plays out almost always >when I have to spank. The children beg early on during >my hand portion to "Pleease STOOP!" That they've >learned their lesson, they cannot take anymore. But I >let them know that "Mommy/Grandma will decide when the >spanking is over. And Mommy/Grandma has just gotten >started." > >Giving a good and proper spanking takes awhile. It >should vary on the age of the child, but even with the >little ones it should still be thorough 'for their >age'. Even when I've had to spank my 6 yr old >grandson, he always complains that "G'amma s'anks >fo'eve'!" (He has trouble with his r's and p's. :) ) > >And I agree with what others have said, in using my >hairbrush (as well as my spoon to some extent), will >leave their own markings. Markings more than a well >reddened bottom. I do spank hard along with spanking >for awhile. So marking will happen in giving a good >and proper spanking with a solid, wooden implement. >And if I have to give an especially serious spanking, >I will, and have, blistered a bottom. But those kinds >of spankings are just needed sometimes. > >However, I feel for standard spankings, it should >always be something that is memorable and an event >they hate and don't want to repeat again. I know they >mean it at the time when they say "You won't have to >spank me again!" They truly don't want to ever go over >my lap again. And do try their best, for awhile at >least. But it is something that we know will be needed >again eventually. > > >Sarah
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