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>Usually I post something here after a spanking, but >this is more of a 'i should have spanked and will if >there's a next time' post. > >Nicholas has gotten really into a new video game. I >have never seen him so focused lol. Side note - could >we somehow make homework this engaging? I don't really >understand it, but it's one where you play with real >people in real time. Anyway, because he doesn't want >to lose or lose points or whatever happens, he really, >really does not like to get up in the middle of it >until he's done playing. If the house was on fire, I >think he might wait until the flames approach that >room. > >One day last week he was playing after school and I >noticed when he got up he ran incredibly fast to the >bathroom then quickly to his bedroom before going back >to his. I didn't think anything of it, he always wants >to hurry back to his game. > >Later on that evening I went to his hamper to get >laundry and noticed the undies at the top are quite >damp. I wasn't upset, but I called him over to me so >we could talk. I was very careful to not be critical >when I asked him what happened, and he said he waited >too long to get up from his game and "mostly made it >to the bathroom in time". He assured me this was a >one-off, that he isn't having an issue with this, etc. >which makes sense as I've not seen anything in the >laundry that indicates otherwise. I remind him that if >he did have an issue like this, he wouldn't be in >trouble. I gave him a hug (with some hug pats mixed >in) and told him to be more careful. > >A few days ago he was playing his game when I noticed >the same panicked sprint to the bathroom. This time I >called him over to me when he came out and he was >looking down at the floor. The same thing had >happened. He "mostly made it there" as he put it, it's >not like he was soaking wet, but still. I put my hands >around his waist and told him that I've been very >lenient with this, but that it's very silly to not >stop playing a video game to take care of basic needs, >along with the fact that I don't need the extra >laundry, etc. > >I told him there would be consequences if this >happened again purely due to procrastination and sent >him on his way with a swat on the bottom. > >I'm thinking I *probably* should have spanked >yesterday the second time this happened. I think that >was a miss on my part. Hopefully this just doesn't >happen again, but I think if it does A) some time >without the game and B) a spanking .. are warranted. > >I'd love to hear others' thoughts on this, and I >especially welcome opinions different than my own.
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