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>Hi, I've been a lurker for the past few months in this >forum but finally decided to make my first post. I am >a mom to two girls, 11-year old Mia and 13-year old >Lena. I have used spanking as a primary form of >punishment since they were about 4. But lately, I have >been struggling a lot regarding their studies and >their slipping grades. I have never been very rigid >about their grades and have never pressured them to be >straight A students. My funda is that one should work >hard and put efforts in studies and then whatever the >results come out, it doesn't matter. They have always >put in decent work towards their studies and received >fairly good B+ or B grades. But for the past year or >so, their grades have been constantly slipping. At >first, it was down to C, then a few Ds and a few Fs >too. At first I thought it could be ADHD or something >else because of which they might be struggling with >attention. So, we got that checked out. But everything >was fine on that front. After observing them, what I >concluded was that they were just not putting in any >efforts in their studies. They are at that age where >makeup, nails, dressing up, gossiping with friends is >becoming much more enticing for them. After coming >back from school, they were just wasting time chatting >on their phones or doing makeup and stuff and didn't >even schedule any proper timeslot for their studies. I >warned them multiple times, took away their phones, >but there was not much improvement. > >So, two months ago, I finally gave them an ultimatum >that any grade below a C+ in any test or assignment >will result in a long and hard bare-bottom spanking >with the paddle for them. Since then, I have had to >dish out quite a lot of paddlings. One day, I even >became so irritated when both of them brought home a D >on their quarterly quizzes. I didn't even took turns >spanking them, just made them bend over side by side, >bared their butts and gave them a stinging reminder >with the paddle till they were crying loudly. Since >this incident, there have been quite an improvement in >their behaviour. There have been a few hiccups here >and there but the spankings have straightened them >out. I am hopeful that we are on the road to recovery >of their grades and the looming threat of a sore >bottom is making them take their studies seriously. > >Have you guys ever struggled regarding your children's >studies or grades? Were the spankings helpful in your >case in improving their behaviour?
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