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>One point that I failed to mention below is that when >I spank, I completely vary where I spank. My boys >have no idea where or which side of the buttocks my >hand or hairbrush will strike next. I will give a >couple or several strikes to one side; then a couple >or several to the other wide; or back and forth. I >may give a couple or few strikes to the exact same >spot, or may vary it a bit. There is no set pattern. >As I mentioned previously, the sit-spot area usually >gets a bit more attention, but how that happens varies >completely. > >Amanda J. > > >>Hi Bridget. >> >>Thank you for the wonderful topic! >> >>My boys are almost 15 and 17. I spank them both pretty >>much the same, however there have been a couple of >>times that my oldest was spanked a bit more seriously >>because of his age. >> >>Up until just a couple of years ago, I only spanked >>with my hand. I added a wooden hairbrush after >>learning so much from Mary and others within this >>wonderful forum. >> >>When I spank, I undress the boy to be spanked while >>having good dialog about whatever the issue was. When >>we are ready for the spanking, I guide him over my >>lap. I always start with a long and hard hand >>spanking, resulting in a very pink or even red bottom. >> At no particular point, I then make a quick switch to >>my hairbrush, just using wrist and a bit of forearm >>motion. The hairbrush really takes the spanking to >>the next level. >> >>When I spank, I cover the boys entire bottom, however >>I do give a bit of extra attention to the so-called >>"sit spot" area. Their entire bottom will end up >>extremely red (at times a bit beyond that), but the >>sit-spot area will typically show as having had even >>more attention. >> >>When the spanking concludes, the one being spanked >>will often remain over my lap for a bit while trying >>to at least start to compose himself, almost like not >>initially even realizing that the spanking stopped. >>Both boys generally then get up and do a bit of a >>dance with absolutely no modestly at that point. They >>will then typically like to be held and cuddled, which >>I enjoy as well. I reinforce how much I love him, but >>didn't love whatever the actions were that lead to the >>spanking. While hugging and cuddling, I will often >>rub his back and bottom, even giving some affectionate >>pats to the very red bottom. >> >>I always make it a point to take a peak at the spanked >>bottom later that night at bedtime or early the next >>morning. How I do that varies, but I do always check >>their bottoms and reinforce love. >> >>My boys are getting older, however I honestly foresee >>spanking at least being an option for some time to >>come. They will likely occur less and then even much >>less, however as of now I at least see the option >>being a possibility for a while when it is really >>needed. >> >>Hugs, Amanda J. >> >> >>>I was wondering after spanking both boys yesterday >for >>>separate offenses, thinking how I spank them a little >>>differently because of their ages. How do you spank >>>with your hand? How do you spank with you implement? >>> >>>My boys are 8 and 11, they are both spanked with my >>>hand and hairbrush as our mom spanked us. I added the >>>brush to my 8 year olds spankings earlier this year, >>>before the brush it was a wood spoon, at 8 they >>>graduate to my spanking hairbrush. >>> >>>I start with my hand, but then quickly move to my >>>trusty wood hairbrush on my oldest, I spank his bare >>>bottom with the back of a wooden hairbrush much >longer >>>than I do with my hand, that started when he turned >>>10, the youngest gets more hand spanking than the >>>brush at his age. >>> >>>With both boys my hand and brush my technique is I >>>will be going back and forth on each side, left cheek >>>then right and across the middle the highest point >>>then down through their sit spots and and then back >to >>>their adorable bottom. I do spend more time spanking >>>their bottom then sit spots. >>> >>>I am also a slow spanker with my brush, I’m in no >>>hurry, although I spank with faster strokes with my >>>hand and harder than with the brush making sure the >>>entire bottom and sit spots have had full coverage. >As >>>Cordelia has said in the past “My whole vibe was "I >>>have all evening if need be" and that is so me with >my >>>boys, they never come off my lap until they are >>>bawling uncontrollably, even my 11 year old. There is >>>tears and snot and they are reminded mommy is boss.
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