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>>Just curious how this amazing forum (thank you, Mary!) >>has impacted you and your family, and how you >>discipline or changed how you discipline. >> >>Speaking for myself and my boys, I have always been a >>spanking mom. And I have always spanked bare bottom. >>Where this forum has made a major difference in our >>lives is that now I am much more consistent in how and >>when I spank and my spankings are much more meaningful >>and productive. >> >>For years I was not as consistent as I should have >>been and we all know that is not fair to our kids >>and/or they will take advantage of that. I would wait >>to long to spank, or not spank at all when I should >>have. I also just used my hand to spank, which >>looking back I am certain made some or many spankings >>not that effective given my boys ages, what they had >>done wrong and such. >> >>I am so proud and thankful to share that now I am much >>more consistent. Am I perfect, no. Far from it. I >>do think my boys are experiencing a much more >>consistent mom now. They clearly know what actions >>will get them spanked and they know how to avoid that. >> I also believe when I do spank now, the spankings are >>much more productive. The undressing and use of both >>my hand and a good hairbrush are consistent. >> >>How about the results? I truly feel my boys have >>benefitted in so many ways. They are much better >>behaved for the most part. They know what the >>consequences of nearly all actions will be. They know >>I am much more consistent. They know my spankings are >>frankly much more severe than they were a few years >>ago, but they also know how to avoid these spankings. >>When a spanking is necessary, they fully know what to >>expect. They also know they are fully loved as part >>of the spanking process, as I spend more time >>reinforcing love before and after the spanking than >>the spanking itself. They end up with severely red or >>maroon (or more) bottoms, but they know they are loved >>and why the discipline was necessary. I honestly >>think they understand now better than ever how >>spankings benefit them! They absolutely hate the >>spankings, as they should, but I think big picture >>they understand them and respect them more now. >> >>This forum and its wonderful contributors truly have >>made a significant and positive difference for my boys >>and myself. Again, my boys and I are not perfect, but >>this forum, each of you and what I have learned has >>made a big difference and been such a blessing. Thank >>you! >> >>Hugs to all, >> >>Amanda J. >I Try to be consistent most time I am I see the >results in my girls it is nice talking to others who >also spank and getting ideas I am glad I found this >forum
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