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Subject: Re: How has this forum impacted your family and how you discipline?

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Megan
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Date Posted: 14:34:49 03/22/25 Sat
In reply to: Amanda J 's message, "How has this forum impacted your family and how you discipline?" on 17:13:16 03/21/25 Fri

This forum is useful in that we get to read about all the different approaches from each other and share what works for us and what does not.

While we aren't all the same in our discipline styles, rituals etc. this forum provides a place to share our thoughts, processes and I value that.

I am kind of old and perhaps stubborn but sometimes I read an approach that worked for someone and it makes me think hmmm, wonder if I should try that out on my two.

I mean we have all kinds of debates, privacy vs. public, when to start with an implement, which implement to select, pre-spanking and post-spanking routines/rituals, corner time vs. no corner time, spank right away vs. make him or her wait and think about it first. We don't always agree but so long as the conversation is respectful I think we all can accept that others don't do things exactly as we do but the main point is we all spank and we can all learn from each other.

I'm not arrogant enough to think that my way is the right and best way (but it works for me) and to be honest sometimes different kids need slightly different approaches so far as spanking goes.

The key thing is that spankings happen and with consistency.

Our moderator (Mary) does an excellent job in monitoring the content and keeping the crazies out so a big thank you to her it must be a lot of work monitoring things and I am grateful for her time and energy.

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Re: How has this forum impacted your family and how you discipline? Amanda J. 23:17:56 03/22/25 Sat

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>This forum is useful in that we get to read about all >the different approaches from each other and share >what works for us and what does not. > >While we aren't all the same in our discipline styles, >rituals etc. this forum provides a place to share our >thoughts, processes and I value that. > >I am kind of old and perhaps stubborn but sometimes I >read an approach that worked for someone and it makes >me think hmmm, wonder if I should try that out on my >two. > >I mean we have all kinds of debates, privacy vs. >public, when to start with an implement, which >implement to select, pre-spanking and post-spanking >routines/rituals, corner time vs. no corner time, >spank right away vs. make him or her wait and think >about it first. We don't always agree but so long as >the conversation is respectful I think we all can >accept that others don't do things exactly as we do >but the main point is we all spank and we can all >learn from each other. > >I'm not arrogant enough to think that my way is the >right and best way (but it works for me) and to be >honest sometimes different kids need slightly >different approaches so far as spanking goes. > >The key thing is that spankings happen and with >consistency. > >Our moderator (Mary) does an excellent job in >monitoring the content and keeping the crazies out so >a big thank you to her it must be a lot of work >monitoring things and I am grateful for her time and >energy.
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