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Subject: Re: How do you provide a spanking


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Date Posted: 16:02:47 03/23/25 Sun
In reply to: Jennifer 's message, "How do you provide a spanking" on 04:36:33 02/27/25 Thu

It depends on who I’m spanking honestly. As the older ones get bigger and especially when I’ve been pregnant I have a hard time navigating putting them over my knee. And with my girls they have both started their periods and are in a time of extreme concern about their modesty so I often leave their underwear on.

With my daughters S (13) and K (11) I tell them to go to their room and get ready which means putting their pillows in the middle of the bed taking off their skirt or pants and lying down on the bed bent over the pillows. Sometimes they are waiting like that for awhile while I calm down so I will not be angry. I then go into the room and I close the door. We have a conversation about what happened while I use my hand and spank their bottom and thighs. Sometimes I will take their underwear down or sometimes I will move it. It is not just a lecture even if they are crying which they usually are I expect them to answer my questions and listen to me. This is the “lesson” part of the spanking. Then I use a ruler or a spoon for the “punishment” part of the spanking. I spank with the implement on their bottoms and thighs without any pauses for conversation. The idea is for this part to be overwhelming and I think I accomplish that every time. When it is over they can cry as long as they want but they know they shouldn’t get up until they have calmed down.

I have spanked my son R (10) like this as well but with him I go back and forth and sometimes he is over my knee. He probably will not be over my knee for much longer with the way he is growing. My younger boys all get spanked over my knee if I can manage it which can be tricky when I’m pregnant I always get huge. They also are younger so they fight the spanking more. The older kids will squirm and buck and kick but will not genuinely get up and try to get away. We do the lecture and conversation before the spanking while I am holding them in front of me because they can’t quite pay attention enough when getting spanked at least not yet. After the conversation they are usually already crying a lot and I will take down their pants and underwear and put them over my knee. I have to pin their legs with my other leg and usually also hold one or both of their hands behind their back. I spank their bottoms and thighs with my hand, and for the older boys (10 and 7) they also get at least the ruler usually. The youngest one I spank is 4 and he just gets a hand spanking at his age. Same with when I spank the older ones on their beds the younger ones can cry as long as they want but they don’t get up off my knee until they’ve calmed down again.

Especially on a hand-spanked bottom I find I don’t have to give very hard licks with the ruler or spoon to be effective. Especially on their thighs. I can get all of them to howling from just the ruler on already-spanked thighs without giving licks so hard there are marks the next day. The older three have all had spankings serious enough to reach the “submission point” I see other people writing about here. I know exactly what you mean but not all of my spankings are that serious in fact I would say that it is rare for a spanking to be that serious.

If the behavior is especially egregious I typically will use both the ruler and the spoon and I will move them around to make sure the spanking is especially thorough and I will give a lot of attention to the sit spots. My kids are all different about how they react to various parts of the spanking.

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Re: How do you provide a spankingJennifer07:46:19 03/24/25 Mon


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