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Subject: Re: Spankings for my grandson and his friend


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Sarah to Mark
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Date Posted: 19:57:23 03/28/25 Fri
In reply to: MarkW 's message, "Re: Spankings for my grandson and his friend" on 13:47:49 03/28/25 Fri

Mark,

It is good to hear from you, as always. :) I will repeat what I said in your thread about trying out the hairbrush as I'm not sure if you saw my response. But I am so sorry about your Mum! From what I understand, she took a big spill? How is she doing? I really hope she is recovering well. My prayers will continue to be with her.

Mark, my hairbrush has been, and still is, very much in active duty. But then I think you knew that. :)

I haven't seen Jason visibly blush when I've spanked one of my grandsons in front of him, but he 'has' looked away or up, and then will usually leave the room. So I am sure you are right in it does bring back some (unpleasant) memories while over my knee. Although he certainly made it easy on himself, as he has quite a large pool to draw from. :)

It's really shame how spanking has become so challenging now outside of the family. I realize I have been fortunate in many respects, although I am sure a lot of it probably has to do with I just won't allow children to come over (if they visit often) or especially sleep overnight if I don't have permission to spank. And I also won't babysit if I don't have authority to use spanking.

As for same soundness as my own, there have been times I've been asked to spank to the parents request, and I respect that. But I will adjust my spankings to a point. Spanking on panties or underpants, spanking in private, don't use a hairbrush/spoon yet. But if their requests become what I feel are ridiculous, wildly different in what I believe a good and proper spanking entails, then I will just thank them for their time, but will say no to allowing their child to stay/babysitting for them.

Fortunately, many of the children I have babysat over the years I have met their parents through church. Which our church is very pro-spanking and I have been good friends with many of them for a long time. So they have come to long trust and let me spank to what I feel is appropriate for good and proper spanking.

I know some parents feel uncomfortable spanking other children than their own, and if they do, they make a point spanking them 'less soundly' than their own. And I do understand why in our current times.

But my viewpoint has always been in that if they are under my care, they are very much part of the family while I am taking care of them. And becoming part of this family, as you well know, when misbehavior needs to be addressed has meant the use of good, hard spankings over my knee. So they are treated no differently in that regards. Not just the act of receiving them, but also in how they are spanked, as well. And in some respects, we have bonded like a family. Where I look at them like another son or daughter, and they look at me the same way as another Mom. Much like what has happened with Andy and Derek.

Where Andy and Derek have gone a little above than normal in regards to that, I have been a second 'Mom' (or 'Mommy' when they were little) to a number of my children's friends growing up. Same with children I've babysat, as well.


Sarah

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