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>Becky, > >First of all, congratulations on your promotion! That >is so wonderful. My daughter Laura (our youngest-25) >is an RN and works out of one of our local hospitals. >She is also getting hands-on experience for an entry >level PA program, which becoming a PA is her goal. It >is lofty, but she has always been driven and done well >in school. We know she can do it. > >You won't get any disagreement from me on where a >proper spanking should be administered, the well >padded bottom (and back legs) are perfect for giving >that well needed correction. Where it should done very >soundly, it is done safely. > >I really want to apologize for mistakenly calling >Bailey, Hailey instead. I always take time to >proofread before I send out and I just completely >missed that. But I am so glad the party went so well >for her and she had a lot of fun. Where I know you >wouldn't have been too upset if you needed to spank, >that the children behaved themselves is the important >thing. With the ages of your three, I know there will >be many times over the years where you can look >forward to putting their bare bottoms over your knee, >including likely during some birthday parties, as well. > >Becky, I didn't mean you needed to establish a strict >ritual by any means in requiring to start with your >hand, it's just something I have found I really enjoy >doing before I switch to my wooden spoon or hairbrush. > >When my kids were younger, I followed my mother's lead >and when the time came to start using the wooden >spoon, I made the full switch to the spoon (from my >hand). And I did the same when moving to the hairbrush >from my wooden spoon. But the spankings were only with >the implement, besides when I spanked with my hand >only when they were very young. As I said, it was how >our mother spanked us, so it was the only way I knew >so I just followed in her footsteps. And you are >right, they still HURT, even starting the spanking >with the spoon or brush from the beginning. > >However, on a few recommendations from some spanking >mom friends (online and real life), I decided to try >out starting spankings with my hand first before >moving to an implement. And the only regret I've had >is I wish I didn't start doing so earlier on. But I >really love giving a good hand spanking. Besides the >feel of smacking my hand to their bare, soft bottom >cheeks repeatedly, I just really like the personable >aspect of it, as well. There is nothing more loving >and maternal than a mother giving her child a sound >spanking to her child's 'bare' bottom. > >But the only thing I wanted to make sure on was that >if I hand spanked, it would very much be part of the >punishment. So when I hand spank, I always make sure >to give good, hard and rapid hand spankings. They are >quite intense and the children always respond in kind >with the expected loud wailing and screaming. My hand >won't leave that lasting reminder as my spoon or brush >does, but that's why it's only the first part of the >spanking. But it is very much a part of the spanking >the children hate. And, just as important, it's a >portion that I enjoy administering a great deal. > >But as I have said before, you will find what works >best for you and your children, and what is enjoyable >for you. However, I just wanted to share why I always >start with my hand. > >Believe me, I completely understand. I had figured it >was something along the lines of just continued >build-up of naughty behavior. As we have talked about >on the forum before, that reset button just sometimes >needs to be hit and that's exactly what appears needed >to happen with Bailey, Levi and Joey. Nothing washes >that naughty behavior away more quickly and resets >that button more effectively than a good, hard >spanking. > >Becky, I can relate with what you are saying in >regards to Gabe in having a bit of a soft heart. My >husband tried spanking not longer after we married (we >were both remarried) and he never really could give a >proper one. It was more swats than anything. So we >both decided that it would be best if I handled the >spankings from then forward. I would much rather be >the 'bad guy' and have the children always receive the >proper discipline that they needed than have both of >us attempt to spank, and sometimes they are spanked >properly and sometimes they're not. The important >thing was we were a united front, Robert always >supported me 100% when I needed to spank. There was >never running to Dad to try and get out of it. > >Now Gabe is nothing close to what Robert was like in >that he certainly still gives very sound spankings >that get the children bawling and screaming loudly. >But it doesn't sound like he maintains it, much like >you and Diane when you need to spank. And I agree, it >is very important to continue spanking soundly, no >matter how loud and hysterical they scream or how >frantic they are. The parent determines the length and >how soundly it needs to be administered, not the >child. And I fully agree with your statement in the >screaming and howling is letting Mommy know the >spanking is sending the desired message. Although that >doesn't mean that the message has fully been received. >The children complain to me often afterwards that I >spank "too hard!" and/or " too long!" But that is just >another aspect letting me know I am spanking exactly >how I should be. > > >Sarah
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