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Subject: Re: Update on my niece and nephew's childcare


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Amanda J.
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Date Posted: 11:51:20 04/08/25 Tue
In reply to: Sarah 's message, "Re: Update on my niece and nephew's childcare" on 20:44:14 04/06/25 Sun

Hi Sarah,

Thank you so much for all your support and kind words! I agree with you, it is great that we are getting so much ironed out. I love that we are so much on the same page and being so respectful of each other and our kids.

I have to agree with what you said, it probably is my boys that are coming out on the short end. I hope that it will be a positive big picture for them, perhaps as a deterrent to not earn a spanking? I suspect the first couple times Jack and/or Allison see them get spanked may be uncomfortable, but hopefully fine after that.

I am hoping that the aspect of not purposely making spankings public, but also not hiding it at all, will work out for everyone. I guess we will see how it works out when the time comes, but I really hope just letting nature take it course when spankings happen will be fine. I admit I have thought and wondered who will deserve a spanking first under this new arrangement and who will see or hear it.

Sarah, have you ever run into any issue with younger genders seeing the spankings of older opposite genders or vice-versa? I assume all being family that should be fine?

Thank you again for your support!

Amanda J.




>Amanda,
>
>I am really glad to hear that everything is coming
>together with Amy. Both of you are handling it the
>right way, it is imperative to get these things ironed
>out, especially with how much sitting you will be
>doing for your niece and nephew.
>
>In regards to the public aspect for the spankings, I
>feel both you and Amy are handling it the right way. I
>mean with some rare exceptions, I really don't think
>you need to deliberately take a child into a room with
>others to spank them, anyways. However, I have never
>has an issue spanking the children when they have
>misbehaved in a room with others present, which is
>what it sounds like what you and Amy have agreed on.
>
>But I have to agree with Megan, it is likely going to
>be your boys that will come out on the 'short end of
>the stick', you could say, as it will be more
>embarrassing for them being spanked in front of their
>younger cousins than vice-versa. And honestly, I feel
>that's fine. Very much like how Cheri indicated, it
>will bring their spankings 'up a notch or two'. The
>added embarrassment will make their spankings all that
>more effective.
>
>Please do continue to keep us updated. Has it been
>decided yet on when the big day is?
>
>
>Sarah

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