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>Thank you Mary, for the warm welcome! I cannot promise >how active I will be here; believe it or not, even in >retirement I have a full schedule each day that keeps >me busy. > >Yes, as a mom and now also a grandmother, I've seen my >share of the bared fannies of young men and young >ladies upturned over my lap, awaiting their >well-earned chastisement! I would have to say that >God, in His infinite wisdom, saw fit to "fully equip" >boys and girls with such spankable bottoms, so that >they can be corrected without fear of any real injury >or harm. I would never in a million years >intentionally do anything that would cause any real >harm to any of my children or grandchildren, their >friends, or anyone else I've needed to correct - but - >a good sting in the butt never killed anyone! It's >the way my siblings and I were raised and actually >everyone we knew when we were kids. There was no >shame in getting a spanking, there was no resentment, >it was just our way of life and nobody made a big deal >of it. > >Yes, to reiterate, I think being back several years >ago when my kids were young, combined with the small >town atmosphere where nearly everyone knew everyone >else, if your child acted like he or she had taken >leave of his or her good senses while under your >supervision, it wasn't just that you had unspoken >permission to spank them, it was almost like you were >expected to. > >When "exchanging" kids from one set of parent's home >to another for visiting, almost the first thing asked >was if "Little Johnny" or "Little Janie" behaved him >or herself. I never lied but I was always honest with >the other parents, as I'm sure they were with me. For >all of us that I knew, getting a spanking for >misbehaviors at a home you were visiting, was an >automatic second spanking once they were back home. I >believe our little town produced a lot of good, >well-adjusted, morally-upstanding young men and women >who were well prepared to become law-abiding and >productive members of society; and really, isn't that >the primary goal of all parents? Well, at least it >should be. > >One specific story I will share - because I feel as >though I owe it to this forum - is when my kids were >being babysat by my mom, their grandmother. I >certainly didn't tolerate childish misbehavior when in >the care of their grandmother - that was a BIG >"no-no!" When I picked them up, my mom told me my 9 >year old son had pitched a fit because he didn't like >what she was serving for dinner, he wanted something >else. In the confrontation, he very disrespectfully >called her a horrible name. Needless to say, I was >not only livid, I was greatly embarrassed, like this >was a reflection of my own parenting. > >When I questioned Mom for details, she assured me that >she addressed the disrespect by giving him a spanking. > However, she revealed the "spanking" she gave him was >a few swats with her hand over his clothed bottom. I >believe she was actually trying to convince me that he >had "paid his debt" for being so disrespectful, to >keep him from getting a spanking from me. My son >seemed pleased that his grandmother telling me he had >"already been spanked" meant he was no longer in >trouble. Not so fast. > >On the drive home, he knew very well what "we'll >discuss your behavior when we get home," REALLY meant. > >I marched him to what I dubbed "The Spanking Chair" >which is an armless, highback chair situated in a >small den area, that really serves no other purpose >than being used to administer spankings. I keep my >heavy Rosewood hairbrush sitting on a small nearby >table. He well knew what was coming. > >Once seated, I began to lecture him, reminding him how >deplorable his behavior was, particularly to his >grandmother, a women who loves him dearly and would do >anything for him. He began to sniffle and tear up; I >think he was truly ashamed of himself. This is what I >wanted, true understanding and contrition, so it would >be a learning experience. > >However, that didn't prevent me from unbuckling his >pants and sliding them down to his ankles, soon >followed by his underpants that would be warming his >ankles for the next several minutes. I continued the >lecture for a while as he obediently stood in front of >me, bare bottomed. He instictively had both of his >hands covering both of his butt cheeks as in something >of a protective gesture, knowing what's coming; it was >a rather cute reaction! I know he was also a bit >embarrassed with his front being exposed and I would >imagine he wished he had three hands. > >He was in quite a state when I finally guided him over >my awaiting lap; reluctant, but not resisting, either. > > >I believe all kids - for some reason particularly boys >- learn better when their bare behinds are up higher >than their heads! I would often put my right foot up >on the bottom rung of the chair, to elevate my right >leg and therefore elevate the bared bottom lying >across it, thereby presenting a good "target." > >Like I've heard other moms here say, I took a moment >to admire his amazingly cute, lily white, boy bubble >butt as he flexed and unflex it, trembling slightly in >anticipation of the spanking he is about to receive. >He kind of pumps his butt up and down a little, before >the spanking even starts. I don't know why he does >that but he always does and none of my other kids ever >did. > >Despite enjoying the magnificant view, I didn't keep >him waiting long. My ample hand smacked down hard on >his left cheek, then his right cheek, and then right >across his crack, leaving distinct red finger marks on >one cheek and a clear palm print on the other. And >then that routine was repeated over and over and over, >again. He began to really buck in earnest then. His >legs were kicking, as much as his pants and underpants >around his ankles would permit. His head was almost >comically bobbing up and down as he yelped LOUDLY with >each swat to his bare white-turning-pink, fanny! > >If he was animated then, it was nothing like when I >started in on him with my hairbrush! I didn't know he >could sing soprano so well! He was ALL OVER my lap as >the intense heat and sting began to send him into the >stratosphere! Now his bottom went from pink to tomato >red! > >No offense intended to anyone else, but I really don't >spank anywhere BUT the BUTT; not the thighs or >elsewhere. I just think God provided bottoms for many >purposes and one of them was to spank, so I limit all >of the spanking to JUST the rear end. > >Afterward, when he was a crying mess, I let him up. >He bounced and twirled all around the room, both hands >clutching both buring butt cheeks! It was quite the >show. > >After he calmed down, we discussed his behavior again >and I expressed how very disappointed I was with him. >He actually admitted how badly he felt for the way he >had treated his grandmother and with my encouragement, >he called her to apologize. It was a genuine apology, >not something I demanded for him, to just say >meaningless words. I know it came from his heart. > >Today he is an attorney working for a child advocacy >organization, married to a beautiful young lady with >two beautiful children of his own, an older boy and a >younger girl. I could not be more proud of him! > >Sometimes the best lessons in life are learned over a >mom's (or dad's) loving lap!
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