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Subject: Re: Convincing my sister


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Kelsey
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Date Posted: 18:01:10 04/23/25 Wed
In reply to: MarkW 's message, "Re: Convincing my sister" on 12:35:31 04/23/25 Wed

Mark,

I can see why you and Samantha are puzzled by Carly's double standard about embarrassment. Sometimes Carly says things that don't fully make sense and she isn't always the most transparent about her full thought process. I suspect the frustrations involved with mothering rowdy boys cause her to be less concerned about embarrassing her own sons compared to my children for whom she feels no frustration. I also think she prefers to just focus on the discipline of her own kids rather than awkwardly witnessing my kids get punished. For whatever reason Carly is more interested in seeing a spanking demonstration on her own boys rather than either of my kids. One significant benefit of doing it this way instead is that it will serve not only as an opportunity to demonstrate what a good sound spanking entails but also a demonstration of the behavior change at home that Carly will get to witness first-hand up close. I can talk to her all day about how much better behaved my kids are but that won't be as effective as seeing her own kids improved behavior herself.

Thank you for your complimentary comments about my writing and thoughtfulness I put into my posts. Not only do I enjoy the act of spanking but I also enjoy writing and reading about it as I'm sure you can tell from my posts. After witnessing the immense benefits of running a spanking household it is very easy to take on my role as spanker with "great gusto".

If you are at all interested in my earlier posts when I first joined the forum (~8 weeks ago) I suggest you dig for them in the archives. In particular search for the threads titled "New Mom here and I wanna give spanking a try" which is my intro post and also "Spanking Time!" which is a detailed report on my very first spanking.

Yes with boys aged 7, 9, and 10, it won't be long before they need to visit their Aunt Kelsey's knee. When a kid of that age is getting their first spanking, it will have been a long long overdue spanking as were the first spankings for my two kids.

In my mind it's not really a legit spanking if it's not bare bottom and I have no intent of ever swatting a clothed bottom. These spankings will be the real deal which means my nephews will be bare bottom over my knee as they are chastised with my hand and hairbrush and it will not end until the bottom is tomato red all over and the boy has fully emptied his tank of tears and the lesson is learned. My spanking mentor Julie made it clear to me that effective spankings need to be intensely painful and something kids will be highly motivated to avoid in the future. Anything less than that will be a waste of time and no better than the previous ineffective punishments I used. I need Carly to fully understand what a proper spanking entails and I would not be doing her or her three boys any favors by giving them anything less than an authentic bare bottom spanking.

And yes I think you are right that it would be best to instruct my two kids to stay in their bedrooms while their cousins are getting spanked. Although, as you point out, they will certainly be able to hear it as spankings aren't exactly known to be quiet affairs.

I am also hopeful that Carly will be impressed by the lessons soundly smacked into her boys' backsides. More importantly I hope she is impressed with the results she sees at home with her freshly spanked sons and will start giving them the same treatment on a regular basis. I couldn't agree more when you said "There is nothing like a good sound spanking to improve the behaviour of a naughty kid".

Thank you for wishing me luck on the spankings. I very much look forward to my nephew's first spankings and I will update the forum about it as soon as I can.

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