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Subject: Re: Hearing but not seeing a bare bottom spanking

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Alfred22 for Trish
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Date Posted: 12:25:42 05/07/25 Wed

You are welcome, Trish. I do admire you for navigating the girls' "paddle years" and then hanging tough on your joint decision to move away from spanking at age 13. Apparently there were second thoughts and the temptation to spank again. In that case I think keeping your promise not to spank was ethically more important than any benefits that might have accrued from dusting off the paddle.

The enthusiasm for administering spankings that characterizes many moms seems problematic. Your take on it seems right to me. It has to hurt to work but just as with medical procedures that hurt, a parent should approach spanking with loving firmness. You did that and did it well. And, you didn't ask your daughters to sympathize with you for your own very real pain.

We might want to discuss how you were able to handle, if you received any, teenage requests to substitute a paddling in place of a particular loss of telephone or driving privileges! Voluntary teen spankings can still "work" but the teen has to agree to make it work and that takes a lot of maturity and a sincere promise to do it.

>Thank you Alfred.
>Spanking is very much in the "rear view mirror" in our
>home, with one daughter nearly 21 and in college, the
>other 17. However, my interest in the subject is
>still growing as I have seen hints (clear public
>mentions of it by other parents who were total
>strangers) of it in public over the past six months or
>so. While I absolutely HATED doing it, I still firmly
>believe spanking has its place, and the sting of a
>proper spanking is important. However, I also view it
>as the ultimate end to a disciplinary process
>(including alone/corner time, and clearly
>communicating why it is happening).

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>You are welcome, Trish. I do admire you for >navigating the girls' "paddle years" and then hanging >tough on your joint decision to move away from >spanking at age 13. Apparently there were second >thoughts and the temptation to spank again. In that >case I think keeping your promise not to spank was >ethically more important than any benefits that might >have accrued from dusting off the paddle. > >The enthusiasm for administering spankings that >characterizes many moms seems problematic. Your take >on it seems right to me. It has to hurt to work but >just as with medical procedures that hurt, a parent >should approach spanking with loving firmness. You >did that and did it well. And, you didn't ask your >daughters to sympathize with you for your own very >real pain. > >We might want to discuss how you were able to handle, >if you received any, teenage requests to substitute a >paddling in place of a particular loss of telephone or >driving privileges! Voluntary teen spankings can >still "work" but the teen has to agree to make it work >and that takes a lot of maturity and a sincere promise >to do it. > > > > > > > >>Thank you Alfred. >>Spanking is very much in the "rear view mirror" in our >>home, with one daughter nearly 21 and in college, the >>other 17. However, my interest in the subject is >>still growing as I have seen hints (clear public >>mentions of it by other parents who were total >>strangers) of it in public over the past six months or >>so. While I absolutely HATED doing it, I still firmly >>believe spanking has its place, and the sting of a >>proper spanking is important. However, I also view it >>as the ultimate end to a disciplinary process >>(including alone/corner time, and clearly >>communicating why it is happening).
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