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>Thank all of you for your kind, generous, and >supportive comments. I shan’t address each >individually, but I will try to answer questions. > >Ashley asked, “You said his spanking was 3 or 4 mins >long. Do u think it just seems that long, or is it a >true 3 minute's?” > >Me: That’s a good question, Ashley. I most >certainly didn’t set a timer to see how long the >spanking took place and I know time seems to take on a >different dimension depending upon circumstances. For >example, waiting for a pot of water to boil seems to >take FOREVER, whereas time spent online just FLIES by. > It’s quite the phenomenon, IMO. > >Perhaps it was not a full 3 minutes of pure fanny >smacking as some time was spent getting Jimmy’s >bared derriere into just the right position, some more >time was spent patting and rubbing his adorable cheeks >to check for resiliency – which caused him to squirm >a bit and make soft whimpering noises – I guess I >was “getting the lay of the land” so to speak. > >OTOH, when it comes to spanking, I think I am what >some have described as a “slow roaster,” in that I >don’t start in with “shock & awe” like some moms >do…at least for the first 30 seconds or so. I start >out rather soft and then quickly build up intensity as >I go along. When I initially said, “3 or 4 minutes >of intense spanking,” it really wasn’t >“intense” for the entirety of the spanking. I >don’t think either way is “right” or >“wrong,” just different. > >However long it was, I’m sure it was different for >Jimmy than it was for me. I still maintain it was a >few minutes; however I’m sure Jimmy would tell you >his “ordeal” lasted for HOURS, haha. > >MarkW commented: “It would be interesting to hear >the young man's views on a good spanking from you as >compared to one from his Mom.” > >Me: Unfortunately this particular daughter, her >husband, and Jimmy live a significant distance from >me, in another state, so I don’t see them nearly >often enough; which is why I was so excited to be able >to spend some quality time with Jimmy. > >I can only speculate that the spankings Jimmy gets >from his mom are more severe, at least physically. I >have seen the heavy but beautiful Rosewood hairbrush >she uses to paint Jimmy’s back porch red with; I >think it is more formidable than my trusty spatula >that has been visited upon MANY bare bottoms, both >boys and girls. > >I specify “physically” because I have to believe >Jimmy’s initial embarrassment of me seeing his >“debriefed” rear end was probably more of an issue >to him than the actual butt-sting, as I’m sure he >feels more comfortable with his own mom seeing him in >such a state of undress. So looking at the overall >experience, I would only guess he’d rather be >spanked by his own mom. Actually he’d rather not be >spanked at ALL but most kids don’t make it to >adulthood without getting their tail tanned on >occasion, particularly boys. > >Also bear in mind, that grandparents are not parents. >Not all, but I think typically grandparents are not as >strict with their grandchildren as they were with >their own children when raising them. Part of it is >just mellowing out in our older years, but also >feeling more like the grandchildren’s protectors. > >I remember growing up with my siblings and if we got >into some kind of trouble to where we were threatened >with a spanking by our mom, on more than one occasion >if our maternal grandmother was visiting, she somewhat >facetiously threatened to put our mom – her daughter >– over her knee, “like she used to” if she dared >to spank one of her precious, angelic grandchildren, >haha. Obviously this threat was not taken seriously >and after it was issued, sometimes we did not get a >spanking, but sometimes we did. At the very least >however, it always gave us a bit of a smile and a >chuckle, to envision our mom getting spanked by her >mom, instead of us getting spanked! > >There is a strong, though different, bond between >grandparents and grandchildren, vs parents and >children.
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