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Subject: Re: Reintroduction - Please Consider Updating Us

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Sarah to Kimberly - my take
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Date Posted: 22:22:11 02/25/25 Tue
In reply to: Kimberly 's message, "Re: Reintroduction - Please Consider Updating Us" on 21:24:22 02/25/25 Tue

Kimberly,

If I could just interject my opinion, as another mom who has spanked in front of others.

If you read my reintroduction, I am a mother of four grown children. And where I didn't address it in my post, as I indicated above, I am also a Mom (and now Grandmother) that does not have an issue spanking in front of others if that is where the child finds the need to misbehave. And there has never been an exception for that in regards to age or gender.

It's never been something I've gone out of my way to do. Like not all spankings take place in the living room. However, it's also something I don't go out of my way 'not' to do, either. Unfortunately for the children, usually when they have acted up it's been in a public setting in the house, so others have seen their spanking.

As I always told mine, and now tell my grandchildren (it's really only my 12 yr old granddaughter right now that protests), if they didn't want others to see their spanking, then they should have behaved.

I have always respected the modesty of my children, as well as my grandchildren. However, my feelings have been is modesty is a privilege, not a right or expectation, even when you are older. And if you misbehave, you lose that privilege, even in a setting where others are present. Were my children embarrassed? Oh yes, most certainly! But like you shared with the spanking your mother gave you, it made the spanking that much more memorable for them.

So my opinion is keep your course with your children in regards to where you spank, especially if you aren't feeling any resentment from them. As embarrassment is very much part of the spanking. But of course you and your husband know what is best for your children. Please let us know what you decide.

Sarah

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>Kimberly, > >If I could just interject my opinion, as another mom >who has spanked in front of others. > >If you read my reintroduction, I am a mother of four >grown children. And where I didn't address it in my >post, as I indicated above, I am also a Mom (and now >Grandmother) that does not have an issue spanking in >front of others if that is where the child finds the >need to misbehave. And there has never been an >exception for that in regards to age or gender. > >It's never been something I've gone out of my way to >do. Like not all spankings take place in the living >room. However, it's also something I don't go out of >my way 'not' to do, either. Unfortunately for the >children, usually when they have acted up it's been in >a public setting in the house, so others have seen >their spanking. > >As I always told mine, and now tell my grandchildren >(it's really only my 12 yr old granddaughter right now >that protests), if they didn't want others to see >their spanking, then they should have behaved. > >I have always respected the modesty of my children, as >well as my grandchildren. However, my feelings have >been is modesty is a privilege, not a right or >expectation, even when you are older. And if you >misbehave, you lose that privilege, even in a setting >where others are present. Were my children >embarrassed? Oh yes, most certainly! But like you >shared with the spanking your mother gave you, it made >the spanking that much more memorable for them. > >So my opinion is keep your course with your children >in regards to where you spank, especially if you >aren't feeling any resentment from them. As >embarrassment is very much part of the spanking. But >of course you and your husband know what is best for >your children. Please let us know what you decide. > > >Sarah
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