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Subject: Re: New Mom here and I wanna give spanking a try


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Becky
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Date Posted: 23:58:36 02/28/25 Fri
In reply to: Kelsey 's message, "New Mom here and I wanna give spanking a try" on 22:48:35 02/27/25 Thu

Hello Kelsey.

I’m super happy that you and I found this forum at the same time, and for similar reasons. I, too, like to write but find myself holding back because I worry that I will write too much and embarrass myself. Your posting is wonderful as everyone is acknowledging. I hope we can exchange messages, support one another, and learn together. The proper spanking of children is both a science and an art.

I am really happy that you found Julie. Clearly, she knows what she is doing. As you and I both overcome our natural tendency to be tender hearted, and develop the fortitude to spank properly, it is really helpful to learn from and about other mothers who no longer feel concerned about all the crying and wailing that a child produces when he or she is being properly spanked. You responded to my initial post, so I won’t explain my situation again other than to say that, like you, I feel very grateful to have a mentor in my life too. Diane, the mother of my fiancé’s children, is not only a good friend, but an excellent example of a mother who isn’t afraid to tan a naughty tail. Diane hasn’t exactly clued in to the fact that I have been watching and learning from her, but I have. The only other spanking mom that I know is Linda, and she lives across the street from us and a few houses down. I know she is a spanking mom because she gave Joey, my fiancé’s nine year old a spanking when he got in trouble with her own nine year old boy.

There is one difference between us and that’s that I was raised with spankings, and you weren’t. Mom was quite liberal in her use of the kitchen wooden spoon or her wooden hairbrush, and she spared us nothing. Pants and panties down, over her knee, and until we had no more tears left. With two younger sisters, Mom always spanked me last. I often felt sick to my stomach standing in the bedroom that us girls shared, bare from the waist down while I waited and watched my two sisters go before me. Their screaming and wild kicking was awful, but it was seeing how intensely red their bare bottoms turned that made my knees feel like rubber. My mom was a believer.

You mentioned that you might have benefitted from having been spanked as a child. Don’t take this wrong, but I agree with you. You seem like a very intelligent person, but I suspect you would have started spanking your son and daughter when they were younger had you been properly spanked yourself as a little girl. Your son and daughter would likely not be struggling with the behavioral problems that they are had you been better informed about the benefits that children reap when they are spanked routinely. Had you been my sister growing up, you would have received the spankings that would have benefitted you. You wouldn’t have enjoyed going over Mom’s knee with your panties down, but you would have learned.

In the same way that your new neighbor, Julie, spanks her youngest with a wooden spoon and her older kids with a wooden hairbrush, Diane spanks her two boys, the nine year old and the seven year old with a long thin vintage wooden lint brush, and oh my goodness you’d think the loud crying was going to break the windows. I found it very exciting to see Diane pull the boys white cotton underpants down. Seeing the boys’ sweet bare bottoms took my breath away. And then, for me to see those perfect young backsides get spanked without mercy, I had a hard time keeping my arousal down.

We are both lucky to have other mothers who will not only teach us the mechanics of how to administer a proper bare bottom spanking, but who will also help us learn how to spank without hesitation. I look forward to giving Diane’s three children the spankings that will help them develop into fine youngsters.

I’m curious, when Julie spanks, is she concerned that her boys and girls will have marks on their bottoms that will last for a few days? When Diane spanks, the boys’ bottoms have red or purple brush marks that often take a while to heal. The spankings she gives her little five year old girl are with the hand and I have never seen any red handprints lasting longer than the day of application. Does it concern you that if you spank your son and daughter with a wooden hairbrush that their bottoms might have some minor bruising? My sisters and I practically spent our whole childhoods with bruised bottoms.

I am glad we met here and I look forward to learning with and from you. We can exchange notes.

Becky

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Re: New Mom here and I wanna give spanking a tryKelsey14:21:31 03/01/25 Sat


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