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Subject: Re: Could it be that they miss it subconsciously?


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Megan
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Date Posted: 11:47:58 05/04/24 Sat
In reply to: Samantha 's message, "Re: Could it be that they miss it subconsciously?" on 10:25:03 05/04/24 Sat

Ivana:

I'm sure he didn't "miss" it during the spanking itself. Now perhaps subconsciously they want the post spanking feelings of starting anew, maybe they find the process gives them a guilt release.

I mean tweens and teens are kind of moody and volatile by nature. The mood swings high as a kite one day down in the dumps the next. They can also have some guilt attacks, perhaps about something they said or how they handled some social situation. Sometimes I think maybe they are just secretly upset with themselves and that may comes out in an ugly way by snapping at someone else or giving off attitude.

The spanking itself seems to get them through and beyond whatever was bothering them and gives them a fresh start.

So I'm sure he doesn't miss it, but perhaps his mind is telling him he needs a fresh start and a spanking provides that.

Guilt presents itself in many different ways, my son had a guilty little conscience as does my grandson Jeff. It didn't really come out in an ugly way with them they just get super quiet, withdrawn and depressed. Then it was time for a what's wrong, out with it when you act this way I know you did something or are upset with yourself about something you said or did to somebody else.

My son with a little prodding would usually break down a bit and spill the beans/confess. Sometimes it was worthy of a spanking, other times we took other actions to rectify things. The moms on here some of them anyhow like to spank. More often than not I don't like to spank, but I do like the ones when I have a truly remorseful, guilty boy or girl over the knee and if they've confessed something spankworthy you know they are really feeling the guilt. Those ones I like as I feel like it is a unanimous spanking decision. The guilty one knows they deserve and need it, and I'm helping them rid their guilt and start fresh.

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