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>>Nice job, Joanne. No doubt your son felt the >>significant difference of this spanking as compared to >>those in the past. I suspect that you will see a >>difference in his attitude and behavior, especially >>after a couple more similar spankings show that you >>are serious. As I am sure you know, the follow >>through is so critical. >> >>If I may just comment about the quantity of up to 80 >>that you mentioned, I am one who does not set any >>specific number of swats. There are so many >>variables. It isn’t just what they did wrong and if >>they had done it before, but also what level of >>remorse and how sincere the apologies and other >>factors are. I go into each spanking having a general >>idea of how serious of a spanking is needed, but it is >>also through the spanking that I judge how serious and >>remorseful they are. There are so many factors. To be >>very honest, I have given spankings that were much >>much more than the 80 that you mentioned, but also >>some that are less. Again, so many variables. >> >>I will also share that up until about roughly two >>years again I was also just giving hand spankings, >>that looking back I know now were not adequate. I >>added a nice wooden hairbrush and made the spankings >>much more intense and the results of my boys who are >>14 and 16 has been amazing. I honestly think in a few >>weeks and months you will be so thankful for this >>change. >> >>Is your 14 year old son your only child? >> >>Warmly, Amanda J. >> >> >> >>>I want to thank this board and Mary and everyone else >>>for helping me with the advice on spanking my 14 year >>>old son. When I first posted, I did not have any idea >>>why my son's bare-bottom spankings were having no >>>effect on him at all. I found out from your replies >>>the reason was I was not spanking long enough and did >>>not apply the hairbrush to my son's bare bottom, >which >>>should have been done years ago, which was my fault. >I >>>hope this will solve the problem with all of the help >>>I received from Mary and everyone else. I spanked my >>>son today. He was getting out of hand and not doing >>>what he was told, so today I decided to try the new >>>method of spanking him. I brought my son up to his >>>room, sat down on his desk chair, and told him things >>>are going to be different from now on. I explained to >>>him that from now on, when he misbehaves, his >>>spankings will be much, much longer than the 10 slaps >>>he received, and I explained to him that I must >>>correct his behavior because it is getting out of >>>hand, and the best way to do this is that he is >>>spanked thoroughly and soundly. I told him instead of >>>being spanked 10 times, he could be spanked up to 80 >>>times and told him that I would apply the hairbrush >to >>>his bare bottom, which he started saying, Mom, >please, >>>I will be good. Please don’t spank me like that; it >>>will hurt too much. I told him that is what a >spanking >>>is for—to hurt, and now you are going to feel what >a >>>real spanking feels like. I told him to stand in >front >>>of me and take off his shirt, which he did; I told >him >>>his spankings will now be nude as additional >>>punishment, than told him to take off his pants and >>>underwear and socks. Now I had him naked in front of >>>me. He was covering up his front because he was now >>>embarrassed, which is part of his punishment. I told >>>my son you are a young teenage boy, and now I have to >>>spank you like a little boy. He started to cry, and I >>>told him this is for your own good. I took him over >my >>>knee and adjusted him so I could spank. I scolded him >>>more than looked at his round, smooth bottom, just >>>knowing it will be very red soon. I began to spank >>>slowly at first and then picked up the pace. He >>>started to wiggle his hips and bottom, but then I >>>really started spanking faster and faster, and now I >>>knew my spanking was working. For the first time >>>spanking him, he was kicking his legs back and forth >>>and crying, begging me to stop, but I knew I had to >>>try this new spanking method. I must have hand >spanked >>>him steadily, and I would say about 80 hand spanks or >>>more. I stopped the hand spanking, and he was crying >>>like a baby, and I explained to him the rest of his >>>spanking will be with the hairbrush. I picked up my >>>round wooden hairbrush and began to spank him; he was >>>really kicking his legs back and forth and almost >>>escaped at one point, but I had a good grip on him. >>>After his spanking, I had him stand up, hugged him, >>>and lectured him that from now on, all of his >>>spankings will be just like this. I took him to the >>>corner and told him to stay there for one half hour, >>>and I will return; then you will be able to get >>>dressed. Looking at his bare, smooth, round bottom >was >>>something to see. It was so red for a change, and >>>knowing that my young teenage boy was well spanked >for >>>a change made me feel so good. Thanks again for all >of >>>your help. > >Hi Amanda Yes this is my only child I have. What age >do you think spankings like this should be stopped? I >was thinking maybe 17 years old but I also have to >consider since I spanked him nude which I never did >before should I continue this way when he is 15, 16 or >17? I am a little mixed up about that.
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