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>My eldest is 13 and I think I’ve spanked her twice >in the last year honestly she is growing out of >needing it I think. She has always been very well >behaved if sometimes forgetful I have not had >deliberate disobedience from her in a long time. > > >My next is 11 and she is in a boundary testing phase >not with me at home but with the school so I have had >to spank her once a month this entire school year. The >transition to starting middle school has been very >hard for her and I am of course sympathetic but her >behavior strays into bullying other girls and I just >will not tolerate that. > > >My 10 year old I probably also spank one a month or >maybe a little less it depends. He’s the oldest boy >and he can get very wild and I try to direct that >energy as best I can but there is a point at which he >is negatively influencing his younger brothers or >putting them in danger and then I have to spank. > > >My 7 year old is almost 8 and I think he probably gets >spanked every other month and it is nearly always for >going along with something ridiculous his older >brother put him up to. I wonder if he would be in >trouble this often if left to his own devices or if he >would come up with these shenanigans by himself >anyways. Last week they went down the stairs in a >laundry basket on a blanket and put a hole in the >drywall and we are lucky nobody went to the hospital. > > >The 4 year old can also be a bit of a menace but I do >not give him “full” spankings he is quite small >for his age and if it comes up I will just give him >some smacks with my hand. He follows after his >brothers and that is how he usually gets into trouble. >Maybe also once a month. > > >The baby is not quite 2 yet and I have never spanked >him. > > >I also have two stepchildren off at college who are no >longer spanked and when they did live with us I never >spanked them that was not part of my role with them. > > >I think I am a little different form other moms here >because I do not spank only. We have plenty of other >things and I only use spanking for if something is >extreme (hitting a classmate in the head with a pencil >case and getting suspended!) or if we have done the >other consequences and it has not worked (no you >really really are NOT allowed to jump between the >kitchen counter and the kitchen island like a little >monkey). Not to say this is the only way it is just my >way for my family.
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