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Subject: Re: Could it be that they miss it subconsciously?


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Tina
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Date Posted: 13:37:04 05/04/24 Sat
In reply to: Ivana 's message, "Could it be that they miss it subconsciously?" on 09:44:14 05/04/24 Sat

>Marek got a spanking yesterday. He directly challenged
>me with his behavior. When he came home from school,
>he threw his backpack in the corner and was cranky
>beyond belief.
>He didn't listen at all, gave cheeky answers or none
>at all, just played on his cell phone all the time and
>then he snapped at me in a loud voice. Mom, what do
>you always want? Leave me alone.
>I'd had enough of his behavior. I led him to my office
>and closed the door. I asked him what was going on and
>if he had a problem with a teacher or classmate at
>school, he should say so, but I would not tolerate his
>behavior. He has not to snap at me! Marek then just
>said: "Mom, you are just boring me.
>All right, I think you just need a good spanking and
>you're overdue. You wouldn't believe how quickly time
>flies, his last spanking was actually 14 days ago.
>Marek didn't beg as usual, please don't spank me, one
>more chance, but said nothing and just looked
>completely bored.
>When he was completely naked, I put him over my knee
>and spanked him thoroughly until he he shrieked and
>squealed at the top of his voice.
>I usually spank them in their rooms and that's why my
>paddle is in the bedroom. But in the office I have a
>very suitable wooden spoon.
>When I stopped spanking Marek with my hand, he got a
>portion with a wooden spoon on top, which made Marek
>bawl like a toddler. I have to admit, I enjoyed the
>sight of his tomato-red bottom with the spoon marks.
>He roared and screamed out loudly. His snot factory
>produced a lot of snot and tears flowed in abundance.
>When I finished spanking him, he jumped wildly crying
>loudly through my office and ran like crazy, naked as
>he was, to his room. A wild running glowing red
>butt...lol
>Later he complained about his sore bottom, but his
>behavior was much better afterwards and back to
>normal. He needed the spanking.
>Once again an example of why I believe in the benefits
>of spanking- consistently.
>You would think that after 14 days he subconsciously
>missed being spanked.
>No, I don't know and ask you if you have ever had that
>feeling with any of your children?

I think sometimes Nicholas gets into a funky mood, which changes his behavior (for the worst, mostly) which begets a worse mood, and so on and so forth, in kind of a spiral.

I think it can be frustrating for him, and what he wants really is to somehow snap out of that mood. If there's no misbehavior associated with the bad mood, talking it out, getting reassurance, going on a walk together etc. etc. may snap him out of it.

When there *is* misbehavior, he gets a spanking, and this snaps him out of the bad mood. So in summary, I think you're correct that they're often looking for some kind of reset. I think the reset they want doesn't involve a spanking, but naturally it doesn't always work that way.

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Re: Could it be that they miss it subconsciously?Ivana11:08:39 05/09/24 Thu


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