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>In the other thread you can see my account of Nicholas >getting too into his game, not wanting to stop for >fear of doing poorly, waiting too long to go to the >restroom and only partly "making it" i.e. having wet >pants. > >I (incorrectly) assumed a repeat of this was unlikely >given my warning him and the embarrassment. Today he >started playing the game shortly after waking up. It's >actually pretty cute the way he lays on his tummy and >zones out, but anyway. Aside from that one mishap this >past week, he's been pretty well behaved and gotten >back some very good scores on tests and quizzes. I >told him he's done a good job and offered to order >pizza and soda for lunch. This may not sound like a >crazy reward or anything, but we're pretty minimal on >junk food here, so he was thrilled. The hugs, smiles, >and thank you's were so great. I wish I could bottle >that feeling up in a jar. > >I wasn't limiting his screen time today (also a bit >rare here), so I wasn't paying particularly close >attention or suggesting pauses. I was enjoying a >little me time online shopping. > >He's playing his game, still in jammies at almost >noon, sipping his drink without taking his eyes off >the screen when I see him dart out of the room like >he's running for an Olympic medal. I peaked in the >hallway having an idea of what may have just occurred >and he left the bathroom walking pretty fast to his >room. > >I called out to him "Come over here for a second >sweetie" and he said without turning around "just a >second, I'm gonna change out of my PJs" and walked >into his room. At this point, he's earned a spanking >regardless of the state of his pajama bottoms for >defying me and walking into another room when I told >him to come to me. I was annoyed with the behavior, >but I don't mind giving a spanking if one is earned. > >I walked into his room and he said "heyyyy! I'm >getting dressed!" which normally he doesn't >particularly care about. He had just kicked off his >pajama bottoms and was about to do the same with his >underwear. I walked over to him and he's already >looking at me like a deer in headlights. I can see the >wet spot on the pajama bottoms and the undies, but I >first want to address ignoring my direction. I lift >his chin gently saying "Nicholas, when I tell you to >come over to me, that is what I expect you to do". >He's kind of nonchalantly holding his hands in front >of him. It's almost funny how oblivious he thinks I >might be sometimes. Anyway, I finish talking about why >it's so important that he comes when called (or that >at the very least he could say "May I get changed >first please Mom?"). > >His eyes are wandering all over the room, and I sit on >his bed, pulling him over to me and putting my hands >on his hips. Before I said anything he starts with "I >know...I waited too long to go again." I said >something like "I know honey and we're going to talk >this over more but you need to take a bath". I started >pulling the undies down and he said in a very pouty >voice "I don't need a bath!...ughhhh". I gave his >hiney a firm spank and told him this was not the time >to backtalk. > >I led him by hand to the bathroom and turned the water >on. I told him to go ahead and get in even though the >water wasn't nearly high enough, encouraging him with >a spank on the bottom. I told him that when he's all >done he needs to call out to me and let me come get >him. I go off to start some laundry, picking up his >wet clothes and all bringing the hamper downstairs. I >haven't said the word spanking, but we both know a >spanking is coming after the bath. He doesn't call out >to me for a while, likely because he's dreading what's >coming. > >I walk in the bathroom and tell him it's time to get >out. I start drying him off tell him he's getting a >spanking for not coming when I called and for >*deciding* not to pause his game in time to take care >of his own basic needs. He's already crying softly >which pulls at my heartstrings, but I know what he >needs - an apple red bottom. I take his hand and lead >him to my room first to get my hairbrush followed by >his room. > >We've already talked plenty, so I sit on his bed and >pull him over my lap. I always take a big, deep breath >as soon as he's over my lap, looking down at the >hilariously white little bubble bottom over my knee >before I start spanking with my hand. His bottom >bounces cutely as I spank slowly but firmly. He's >consistently crying, wiggling his bottom a little, >hoping it somehow makes my hand miss. I really took my >time with the hand spanking. We literally have all >day, and I want this lesson to sink in. > >When I switch to my brush, a new level of hysterics >begin as I pepper his lower cheeks with quick repeated >swats. Lots of "mommy". When his bottom is truly >toasted, I put the brush down and gently pat his >bottom for a minute. I help him up and start helping >him get dressed (which he obviously doesn't need, but >it's a maternal instinct I guess). > >He's still pretty pitiful looking, and pick him up, >and he clings to me. I walk to the living room and sit >on the couch holding him for a while, both of us very >quiet which is out of character for both of us...lol. >I rub his back and bottom, giving lots of very gentle >taps. I said "we're going to put that game away for a >while honey" and he just said "okay mommy", not asking >how long or anything. > >Since then I have had a very cute, angelic shadow - >wanting to stay close and be helpful. I've been >telling him what a good boy he is and giving him my >patented double-pat on the behind.
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