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>Becky, > >Thank you for your wonderful reply and kind words. I'm >not sure about being a 'queen bee', but you are right >in I feel very lucky, as well as blessed, every day >with my family. And I feel so fortunate that all of >them live within driving distance, and most of them >very close. > >And I feel very lucky right now being able to watch >four of them almost daily. Even though the grandkids >do keep my lap busy, especially with the younger ones, >we do a lot more fun things together! I cook with the >girls, Kathy and Izzy (Izzy more watches/hands me >things). The boys aren't interested in cooking with >Grandma, but I do play video games with them and they >just love to beat up on Grandma/Nana on Mario Kart and >Party. But I like it the best when we all do things >together like board games. Chutes n' Ladders and >CandyLand are their favorites. I can tell Kathy isn't >as interested in those games, but she plays along to >spend time with her brother and cousins, so proud of >her. :) > >Becky, I am so happy for you. First, in finding the >right man in Gabe that you want to spend the rest of >your life with, that can be hard enough in itself. But >also him having a family that you couldn't be happier >with, as well. And it certainly sounds like they feel >the same way. But finally, both parents that agree in >your view of discipline, as well. Where I am sure you >weren't actively searching for someone who believed in >spanking before you met Gabe, it sounds like you were >a proponent of it from how you were raised. So where >you were able to find a family where all the puzzle >pieces have fit in perfectly for you, is so wonderful. >Again, I am so happy for you. I know you are going to >make a wonderful Mommy to Levi, Baily and Joey. And >from what it appears in reading your posts, they >already love you, as well. Although of course I am >sure they may not be happy about the new regime of >discipline established, as I am guessing you were >along the lines of "Becky Mom that maybe scolded us, >but we didn't have to worry about punishment" before. >But now you are "more strict Becky Mom that will >actually 'spank' us". Was it something they adjusted >to well enough when they knew spanking was now an >option from you, also? > >Becky, I first want to say I didn't mean to come >across critically when I brought up the amount of >smacks. I only brought up how I have always handled >it, myself. You absolutely know them best and saw how >they responded. It certainly sounds like the spankings >were good and proper. Although if I may make a >recommendation, as I also did with Kelsey, if you find >the need to administer more swats, the thighs, and >especially the sit spots (the curved area between the >bottom of the buttocks and upper thighs), are great >locations to extend to. I actually spank in both >locations as part of my standard spankings. I only go >as far down to about my hand or implement width on >their upper thighs, but believe me, it is enough. It >is very sensitive there and truly gets their attention >and makes the spanking all that more effective and >memorable. And if I have to give a more serious >spanking, I will smack a little further down. Not a >lot, maybe to about mid-thighs. But for them, it is a >huge difference and they let me know loudly! > >I know you've just started to spank and you are going >to likely going to make adjustments to what you will >find works best and is most comfortable for you (and >most uncomfortable/painful for them), so just keep it >in mind when you continue to make your adjustments for >future spankings. > >I did want to ask, but you mentioned that Diane uses a >lint-brush, which I would assume hers is very similar >to a hairbrush, but has a longer handle? My hairbrush >also has a longer than normal handle, as well. Which I >really love, as it makes it much comfortable to hold. >Which is significant to me as I have always felt >giving sound and thorough spankings are an important >part of a good and proper spanking and therefore I do >spank on the longer side. So having that longer handle >definitely is nicer. > >But with Diane and her lint brush, is that the only >implement she uses? Does she use that with Bailey, as >well? I am like you, I am a spoon and brush spanker. I >began using the spoon right around 4-5 yrs old (closer >to 5) and the brush around 8 for the children. It did >vary a bit, maybe a bit younger depending on their >behavior and the child, but mostly around those ages. >That is of course after a good, sound hand spanking. > >I was a Mom, and now Grandma, that uses cornertime, as >well. I don't use pre-spanking corner time, but I do >use it after the spanking. I use it as it allows them >time to think and reflect on why they needed to be >spanked and what they can do in the future to avoid >having to go over my lap. The time in the corner will >vary on the age of the child. Down to 5 minutes for >the little ones up to 20 minutes for the oldest >children. Although it can be longer for more serious >spankings. > >Oh, don't think you are the only one who feels that >way about a well reddened bottom, Becky! I agree, it >is hard not to find them adorable when they dance and >bounce around after receiving a good, sound spanking. >Especially with that maroon bottom and thighs. And the >younger they are, the more adorable it is. :) I won't >lie in saying I don't take some satisfaction in >admiring a job well done. And I know there are others >here that feel the same way as they have indicated as >such. If they wish to post, they can do so. But no, >you aren't the only one to feel that way. > >Becky, I think it would only be beneficial for the >children if you and Diane took over the spanking >duties. I don't say that in Gabe doesn't do a good >job, it certainly sounds like he does. But I will say >this, and no offense to fathers that post here, but in >my experience, it's usually better for mothers to be >the spankers. They do not fall for their daughters' >antics to get out spankings. The sad, crocodile >expressions or pleas, being "Daddy's little girl." >There is no 'letting off' with Mom. And with the boys, >it establishes with them that Mom is still very much >in charge, no matter how old they are. > >Even though it would normally hurt more for boys to be >spanked by their fathers, the boys, when becoming >older, would prefer that than having their bottoms >bared and going over their Mother's lap way more. So >much more embarrassing. It certainly was for my son. >And especially when that Mom can give a good, sound >spanking, as well! Which I know just about every >mother on this forum can do so. So I think if you and >Diane take over all the spankings, it would certainly >end up benefiting the children. And as you said, it >would also be a role you wouldn't mind doing on a >regular basis, as well. > >Please keep us updated. > > > >Sarah
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