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Subject: Re: Consistent bad grades


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Megan
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Date Posted: 17:36:08 05/06/24 Mon
In reply to: JD Winchester 's message, "Re: Consistent bad grades" on 16:11:02 05/06/24 Mon

Kate:

Kids go through phases my son had some ups and downs when it came to school performance. He was pretty close to straight A's until the end of grade 6.

Then in grade 7 he went to junior high. He got a lot more homework and he wasn't super consistent about doing it. He still did pretty well as was he was bright, but mostly A's with just a small percentage of B's started to become mostly B's with a few A's and the odd C. He was complaining quite a bit about the amount of homework the teachers were giving out. I took their side (which doesn't happen enough today) and said they are trying to prepare you for high school and the work load you will have when you get there. The discussion then morphed into me asking him if he was completing all his homework and assignments each day.

He gave me what I used to call the constipated look which meant no. I told him that was going to change pronto and if I hear he isn't making a good effort or assigned work is not getting done there will be some bare bottom consequences.

Over the next 3 years or so he did get I think either 4 or 5 spankings for lack of effort. Each spanking worked for a while then he'd slip back into some laziness and I'd snap him out of it with a pants down encounter.

Second year of high school for whatever reason (maybe he grew up over the summer I don't know) he got his act together and was much more consistent. Then his results went back to mostly A's as it had been before.

So I don't know he had like a three year period age 12-14 or thereabouts, where we had some battles. He always seemed to start each year slowly, I think there was a November spanking each year as he always seemed to get off to a lazy start. Then there was 1 or maybe 2 towards the end of the school year when he'd start to slack off too soon, it wasn't holiday time yet.

Now I look back on it with a smile on my face but I was quite frustrated and upset at the time.

My daughter was much more consistent so far as effort in school went. She had a disrespectful little mouth at that age though. We moms all have problems, problems.

Keep up the good fight Kate and good luck.

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