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>This topic came up in a 3 way call I had with my >daughter and daughter-in-law. We had a bit of our own >debate last night and I thought it would be fun to get >others thoughts as well. > >We spoke of multiple routines of the spanked after a >spanking. Would be interested on hearing of others, >we came up with these as a starting point: > >a) the thinker- one that likes to be alone after a >spanking and do some soul searching and really >contemplate the lead up to and resulting spanking > >b) the napper > >c) both a) and b) above > >d) a very short recovery time and right back to >playing or continuing their day like nothing happened > >e) angry, moody, grouchy and generally unpleasant > >If there are other routines, I'd love to hear them. I >have 3 grandkids currently getting spanked, Jeff is a >c), Lianne is a d) for the most part, and Beth my >son's daughter apparently is an e) which had my >daughter-in-law quite upset on the phone last night, >she wants the reaction to be an a) cause that is how >she used to react back when she was a child. > >My thought was that if she's an e) she probably wasn't >spanked long enough or hard enough. I wasn't there >though but her description of the spanking itself >would defintely indicate that. > >My thoughts were I was okay with any of the routines >other than e). I kind of like the thinkers reaction >myself for some reason both Jeff and my brother years >ago were like that. I was more like Lianne and >bounced right back into things. That worked for me I >didn't feel like I needed to replay it and think it >through I knew where things had gone awry. > >Now sometimes as a mom I used to give the thinkers an >hour or maybe a little longer as they get older then >if it gets to be too long it's time to go to their >room for a talk. I'd often find them on their tummy >with their bare in the air and usually some profound >things came out of their mouths from that position it >was quite a satisying little discussion for both >mother and child. At this stage I'd give them some >reassurance and a bit of an encouraging word that it >is time to move on. > >I'm interested in what others think about this? Do >you have a preference so far as which routine your >child takes. I kind of like a) or c) personally even >though I wasn't like that myself. > >Some want their kids to bounce right back and that is >fine if that is their personality. I don't mind them >being sad and contemplative either so long as they do >it in their room without bringing others down.
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