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>Hi Marcy, > >As a mom, here is why I have always spanked a bare >bottom. Bare? Because it is more efficient - you don't >have to spank as hard to make sure it hurts. Because >you can see the effect it is having and you don't over >spank or underspank. I can see the bottom and how the >spanking is going especially when I want to attain a >certain color/look before I am finished. > >Spanking over clothing takes more effort to get even >close the same effect as a bare bottom. It's supposed >to be a punishment for the kids, not for the parents. >Its also inconsistent depending on what they are >wearing. > >Also, it sends a VERY clear message to the child that >he/she is being punished and that their parent is in >control of them and I will bare your bottom. It really >makes the punishment a lot more effective because they >really, really hate having their bottom bared and >going over the lap. It shows both of my boys "I am in >charge (and look what I can do if I want to, it shows >both of my boys "I am in charge. > >When I spank it is always on a bared bottom and always >over my lap, from the very first time when I started >formal over my lap spankings when they were 4, it was >bare bottom over my lap so I had him under control, >for me it was just the natural way to spank. > >And I also agree that the psychological aspect, effect >of the bare bottom is so important, I offer as proof. >My 14 year old since he was 11 and my 12 year old will >be trying to hide their bare bottom from me when they >go over my lap by hanging it off the side of my right >thigh, smiling I pull them forward into position, also >taking my time adjusting his bottom until it was just >so. It is the ‘star of the show’. My oldest son >when he was 11 became modest around me and being bared >for his spanking aided in him quickly getting over my >lap, it is now the same with my youngest. I agree with >what Sarah said a while back and I never forgot it, >"when they get to be old enough it becomes much more >embarrassing to have their bottom bared and have to go >over Mom's knee for a spanking". > >I feel that their bottom is the ‘star of the show’ >and I do so much enjoy the view. Seeing their cute >bare bottom over my lap tensing I pull them both >forward as I scold. They are at times flat over my lap >as we go through the spanking, at times head and feet >low, they wiggle up a storm I can tell you that but I >have full control of their bottom. A very 'favorable' >position for me as I am in control of their body, and >in the long run beneficial for them.
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