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Subject: Re: Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking


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Karen
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Date Posted: 08:44:07 03/23/24 Sat
In reply to: Carly 's message, "Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking" on 07:13:19 03/21/24 Thu

I always do the baring, If I am giving Lucas a bedtime spanking or at anytime that I will be spanking Lucas when he is in his pjs I will be sitting on the couch as he stands between my knees while I have my legs separated to have him close for the baring, I bare him from the waist down, he will already be barefoot and his pjs come down as I whisk them down to the floor his bottom quickly bared and they stay there on the floor as I turn him over my lap. If it’s a daytime spanking and he is wearing his pants, shorts he will keep his shoes on as I lower his pants or shorts and then underpants or underoos to his knees then take him over my lap, the shoes prevent him from kicking his pants off and having them kicked up in my face. hand on his back, controlling his body.

I have also spanked Lucas completely naked out of the shower or bath and in the summer he many times has no top on just shorts and being barefoot his shorts stay on the floor as his pjs do and when his briefs get lowered they will at times fall to the floor or be kicked off during the start of the spanking and he will be naked. As Lucas got older say around 11 and I bared him he will cover his front with both hands, he is very modest, he also doesn't mind leaving his bottom fully exposed, he is also wanting to get over my lap to cover himself and I'm fine with that because as Mary says all I'm interested in seeing is his lovely boyish round bottom.

I spank Lucas over my lap and I can easily control his body, I sit with my left shoulder turned with him face down on the couch across both of my thighs his hips centered over my right thigh, holding him tight up against me and my left hand on his lower back, controlling his body. When he first goes over I will tell him he has to move up a bit and he will wiggle his way up until I tell him “ok thats good” I take my time getting him "just so", I don't want him coming off my lap when the spanking gets to be too much for him and partly because I wanted it to sink in that he is over my lap with his bare bottom on display and about to be spanked.

Once my son is over my lap I place my hand across his bottom and continue to lecture for a moment, when I am ready to spank I give his bottom a quick rub a few pats telling him ok, this lets him know I am going to spank now. Lucas is 13, he doesn’t start crying before his spanking starts and tries very hard not too cry, but he invariably does and he goes from 0 to 100 he skips preliminaries and after his gasp and holding everything in he starts right in with the very loud crying and pleading and I still have a long way to go with my hand spanking.

Starting with my hand I spank rapidly and quite hard spanking all over his bottom, he is very animated and loud, then when I start in with my brush he reaches back after the first few smacks as he will invariably do as he just cannot take any more, I stop, telling him “take your hand away", he eventually does, the slight pause in the spanking reinforces the message that Mom has all day/evening if that is what it will take. It also shows I am in total control. I then finished his spanking.

When Lucas was 4 I stared spanking him with my hand only, always bare and over my lap, when he was 8 I went to hairbrush only spankings, then July 2020 I went back to spanking with my hand again, adding it to my brush spankings. Everything was the exact same, I just start with my hand, taking a page from Sarah and her hand spankings it was pretty intense. I spank rapid and quite hard spanking from beginning to end before I picked up my brush to spank.

I also incorporated Cordelia"s approach, taking my time when spanking with my brush, and when he would reach back I tell him to move his hand and I wait for him to do so.

Spanking with my hand was and is everything Sarah and Mary, said, I had forgot how it feels, being set in my ways once I went to my brush only I told myself I would not go back. But I am glad I did, the personable aspect when spanking Lucas’s bare bottom with my hand was something I had lost, and turns out I missed it. But as Lucas was getting older his bottom needed to feel the back of my hairbrush to get a proper big boy thorough spanking.

I don’t have a set pattern, I make sure I spank all around his bottom with both my hand and brush as well as his sit-spots. Every time I spank Lukas it’s a real tear and snot making spanking, I can tell you that for sure. When I finish with the brush portion Lucas comes off my lap in full blown loud hysterics with a very shiny apple, ripe tomato and fire engine red bottom and I mean the entire bottom down through his sit-spots are that color. With his face full of tears and snot. We also have a very good cuddle time as he cries until he can’t cry anymore.

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Re: Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spankingLois03:36:38 03/24/24 Sun


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