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>Grumpy, > >I have and will give multiple hard fast swats over a >clothed and at times bared bottom as they are >standing, swats are not a spanking. I will also reach >out or take hold of and give multiple hard swats to >get their attention and at times as a last warning, >but as I have said before that is all they are just >swats. > >I always have and always will turn the one to be >spanked over my lap for a few reasons, I have always >felt that bare bottom spankings over the lap/knee is a >bonding experience a nurturing position, the body >contact, holding them down and close, they are safe as >I am controlling them, it's easy to spank them >properly and land the spanks where I want them to land. > >When the boys were around 11-12 they started asking, >pleading not to be spanked bare or to have to go over >my lap to be spanked because it was too embarrassing >to lay over my lap and have me spank their bare >bottom, they felt it was too childish. But I reminded >them that if they acted like a naughty little boy, >then mommy needed to spank them like one. And they >were going to be taken over my lap and have mommy >spank their bare bottom and that would never change. > >As far as positioning them for their spanking goes. >When it's time for them to go over my lap, when they >were younger I had to lift them up and take them over >or pull them over, as they got older when I was/am >ready to put the one to be spanked over my lap I say >“ok lets go,” while turning myself slightly to my >left and moving them to the side of my right thigh, I >then ‘help’ guide them over my lap and get them >adjusted making sure their bottom is just where I want >and I have their body under control. I say help >because they know what is coming, they don't resist >they just need some help, the three younger boys that >I have been sitting for, helping with, Austin, Decker >and Ryan need the 'most help' to get the them over and >lay them across my lap, positioning them just so. > >I take my time making sure I have them adjusted right >where I want, head and upper body over the bed or >couch, legs pointing out to my right, this is where I >carry out the majority of my spankings, I have spanked >sitting in a kitchen chair but once my boys got >older/taller I only spank them sitting on the couch or >their bed as its easier for me to control them and >support their upper body, but still will sit on a >chair with the younger ones I sit for. > >My personal preference is to have my legs apart as >this gives me a good firm foundation area for them to >lay across, forward a bit so they lay flat and I am >looking right down at wonderful bare bottom that is on >display. They will usually reach back at this point, >if not I will ask them to reach back is I can pin >their arm to their back and my elbow/forearm pressing >against their upper back helping to control their body >and it allows them to squirm, wiggle and kick away, I >don't get upset because they do this how vocal they do >become, as I view it as a natural reaction that can't >be helped and shows me I am getting through to them. I >need to see them being animated struggling over my >lap, I need to hear the loud toddler bawling, the >yelling pleading begging the frantic uncontrollable >crying <an important part of my process.
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