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Date Posted: 2020-06-17 07:39:53
Author: tiptoe
Subject: Words of encouragement

From what I read here, your children don't really need words of encouragement to go barefoot because it's what they prefer anyway. Still a little moral support is good, especially if they get negative comments, or may be a bit hesistant at new situations, so I have compiled a few things that could be said:

- You know that you're stronger and braver than all the other kids who wouldn't dare to go barefoot there?
- Your feet are looking so cool/cute, it would be a shame to hide them. (depends whether the child prefers to be "cool" or "cute", some enjoy being both! Could also say how well what they currently wear goes with bare feet.)
- Now you can sneak around quietly, or climb on trees much better!
- The grass/moss/sand/mud (etc) feels so fantastic, don't miss it! (Much better argument if the parents go barefoot too and why would they want to miss out on that feeling?)
- A puddle is a nuisance when you're shod, a refreshment when you're barefoot.
- Shoelaces go open? Stone in the shoe? Blisters from friction? Can't happen to you!
- Your feet are free to wiggle and never stink ...

(I guess that referring to long term benefits isn't that interesting to kids and not really necessary either if there are so many immediate advantages.)

As has been noted before, young kids don't give that much of a thought to what others may think, especially if going barefoot is their everyday way of life. I have once hiked with kids of another family who really loved walking barefoot on the alpine meadows but when it came to crossing a snow field (on a warm and sunny day) one girl was extremely cautious and wanted to avoid the snow. Since all of us were warm from the hike and there's absolutely no danger of frostbite from walking a minute on snow if you're warm, I encouraged here with the words:
- It's like licking ice cream with your feet!

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