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Date Posted: 2018-12-16 05:40:24
Author: tiptoe
Subject: Discovering your body, your ability, your power

In winter our kids are only barefoot inside the house, and maybe outside for a refreshing few minutes to leave cute tracks in the snow ...

I think another reason why it's so important for children to go barefoot - besides the fact that feet grow best when not constrained - is that it's important for children to discover the abilities and the power of their own body, so they develop a good lifelong connection to every body part. Finding out "Yes I'm strong enough to go there without any footwear and I don't even need to worry" can boost your self-confidence a lot. "It's cold? Not too cold for me!"

This good healthy connection means also to be well aware of your limits (so you aren't foolish and do things that hurt you). Being content with yourself also means you don't have as much of an urge to own lots of things (and waste your money and resources on useless junk).

Some parents are in the way and tell children "you can't do that, it's too cold, it's too dangerous" - instead of letting children find out what they can actually do. If there are too many external limitations you can never get to your personal limits and expand them.

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