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Date Posted: 2023-04-19 10:23:23
Author: Susan
Subject: Implementing the right mindset

Our goal as parents is to enable our children to take good decisions while having a wonderful childhood.
So we aren't giving them a lot of hard rules, but plenty of suggestions.
With regard to the barefoot lifestyle, that means: Children can find out where and when they prefer to walk barefoot. As parents we give encouragement: Your bare feet are cute, nice, strong and capable of plenty of things; if you're not sure, you can try and you might be surprised. We aren't telling them to put on shoes because we as parents think it's too cold, but give a warning that when the coldness stings unpleasantly or they lose the feeling in their toes, painful frostbite may follow. Our kids are both quite cautious but when the sun is shining on a cool spring morning they'll happily go out barefoot and enjoy the warming weather!
Also it's not just going one way. Meanwhile our kids convinced both my husband and myself to walk barefoot at home. And they also have an influence on other kids, though most only dare to go barefoot once it's really warm (above room temperature outside).
Some children find bare feet disgusting or feel overly vulnerable when they are barefoot, but that's mostly because what their parents are telling them. So while we give some warnings of broken glass and other hazards we avoid any such negative association with bare feet. And a child's young healthy bare feet are so cute, it's unmatched by any shoe!

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